Underwear through the Ages

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Underwear through the ages: New exhibition charts the rise and fall of the humble braFrom the pointy bras of the 1950s to the high-tech control pants of today, women's lingerie has gone through dramatic changes over the years and a stunning new exhibition charts the rise and fall of cleavage through the ages.





(from shine, yahoo)

Should Thong Showing be Fined?


From Shine(yahoo)
Britney Spears>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Britney's thong peeks out via Splash News
Thanks to the increased popularity in high-waisted jeans, thongs popping out in the back of a woman's denim is slightly less of a problem. That said, we still cringe at the sight of a g-string in public. When wearing low rise jeans, having your undies peek out is sometimes unavoidable, but this is wear a longer tee covering your waist comes in. Trust us, you may think revealing a hint of satin or lace is hot, but look at this picture of Britney Spears on the left. Ew. Not cute.The city of Yakima, Washington is fed up with the panty party and has imposed a fine of up to $750 on women caught showing off "cleavage of the buttocks." This includes either see-through dresses or G-strings, which officials have deemed offensive to the public. In addition to the hefty fine, women caught revealing their backsides face up to 90 days in jail.Do you agree with this new law? Do you think any other "fashion crimes" deserve a punishment, and if so which ones? [The Sun]

Men's Health

I am reading or have read 2 issues of Men's Health. For all you guys that are fed up, tired of reading all the women's magazines at the doctors office, I recommend getting a subscription of this magazine. It is similar to a woman's magazine, it has cologne samples,guy adds, articles for guys nutrition, health etc, sex secrets, food helps (cooking), and lots more. I paid $5.00 for the June 09 issue. I bought it a Walmart after checking the grocery store for the magazine.

Ladies you should subscribe to the magazine for the cuties inside it.

Men's Health and Soy products



The unassuming soybean has silently infiltrated the American diet as what might be the perfect protein source; It's cheap and egetarian, and could even unclog our hearts. But there may be a hidden dark side to soy, one that has the power to undermine everything it means to be male. (click on picture)

Tasting and Enjoying












(this isnt mine but not certain where I got it from, its been awhile)

Panties or sex

So here's the question - for those of you afflicted with this love for women's lingerie is sex what happens with her or with her panties? Or is it both?

I read a posting on another blog asking this very question, it has been a question I have been wondering about myself. I have sent my panties to friends as close as an hour away and as far as 10 hours away, cross country and to friends north of the border. It only takes a request to get me to purchase panties for you! But once you get the panties are they for wearing or for sexual gratification with or without a partner? Does it matter the style or color or fabric??
Not certain? Then next time in a quality department store, take a stroll through the lingerie department. Do what I do, I touch everything to feel the fabrics, check out the styles, don't know about you but any fabric that touches me needs to be soft not rough. The only way to know how soft and silky panties/lingerie is, is to feel touch the lingerie. Don't worry about the sales help, guys do purchase items for their SO's besides the sales help will want to assist you to make a purchase. I do like it when I see a bf or husband with his lady in the lingerie department, I am certain it adds to the excitement in their relationship.

Why?

I don't even know how to begin this, but here it goes. Last night or very early this morning, I was once again talking to my friend from Australia. I am never certain about the time difference. When Steven found out I was still up a 2 am my time, he sent me to bed. Maybe one day I will get to meet him. It makes no difference my nights have been very restless. Lots on the brain, hope by September there will be less to worry about. And yesterday my carpal tunnel started acting up, it has been difficult to dress, so tomorrow it will be the simplest of clothes for me to dress in.
But anyway, the conversation we were having has been one we have been going around and around about for awhile. The issue isn't the typical fetish question, panties, lingerie, socks or any of the others discussed on forums. But the question he asks me is always why can't guys wear whatever they want, when they want, where ever they want. I give him the pat answer, you know the answer its because our societies and culture would have difficultly accepting guys in female clothing. Notice I used the word 'guys'. I am talking about the 100% male all masculine, rugged tough guy. oh maybe not so rugged or tough but you get the idea.
Yes there are guys who want to wear the clothing that makes them feel most comfortable, whatever that clothing is. They want to be able to have all the choices that women have. Not to be limited to just slacks and a shirt! I personally don't understand why a guy would want to wear heels or stockings or dresses or skirts. When I wear those items I behave differently, more feminine or 'lady like'. Which is different then when I am wearing slacks and a blouse. Not to say I leave my 'lady like' behavior at home on those days but I can bend over, climb ladders and all that other stuff without worrying about who can see what! Remember I do teach school.
The question still is the same WHY? why is it that guys can't slip on heels, it has been proven in history that men wore heels way before women took over the fashion, history proves that men have been wearing clothing that resembles skirts or dresses for centuries in the eastern world, when did this become a ladies only fashion trend. Guys were the peacocks through out history, wearing the brightest of colors. At least that has changed over the years. I love seeing the male teachers at school in the their colorful dress shirts. I do compliment the guys on the colors they wear.
So I am game, Why??? can't guys wear whatever they want, when they want, where ever they want? Please give me a history lesson. It's time to have a revolution. The 60's and 70's the age of women's liberation, had women wearing men's clothing, maybe its time we have a men's revolution! A new decade will be here in a few short months 2010, is it time for a revolution?

I am tired of giving the same pat answers, after awhile the pat answer has no meaning, no definition, just rhetoric. Lip service. Help me out, give me another answer to WHY??

Panty Glossry


Panty Glossary from Bali Website

PANTY GLOSSARY Trying to pick your perfect panties? Here’s your easy guide to what panty design terms mean, and what the cuts can do for you. Take a look, and then choose your look…sleek or lacy, demure or racy…smooth microfiber or soft cotton.


Full to Moderate Coverage Panties


Traditional Brief Panties that give you generous coverage, front and back. Typically the waistband comes to the natural waistline. Has a low leg line with a squared off appearance.


Modern Brief Provides smooth, generous front and back coverage. The waistband sits 1-2 inches below the natural waistline, for a lower rise than traditional briefs. The low leg line has a squared off appearance.


Hi-Cut Gives coverage in back, leg-lengthening higher-cut leg openings in front. Full rear coverage comes to the natural waistline. The leg opening hits the high point of the hip.


French Cut Designed to flatter legs. Panty gives full rear coverage that comes to the natural waistline. The leg opening hits the high point of the hip and is positioned more to the front than a standard hi-cut.


Control Brief Looks like a brief or hi-cut, but also slims you. Can be as smooth as a conventional panty or include control panels for extra trimming.


Hipster A panty with a lower rise than a brief or hi-cut, for less show-through with low cut pants and shorts. Hipsters usually sit 3 inches below the natural waistline. Provides full seat coverage. The hipster has a lower leg line that is squared off in appearance.


Shorts

Boy Short The boxy design is cute and comfortable. Boy shorts have a variety of rises in the waistline (sit at the natural waist to 3 inches below the natural waist). The leg line typically hits below the buttocks, but some are more “cheeky”. Typically Boy Shorts have a fabric hem instead of leg elastic.


Girl Short Squared off like boy shorts, but a little more lacy and racy. Instead of the leg line hitting below the buttocks, the girl short usually shows part of the butt cheek.


Moderately Revealing Panties

Bikini Typically sits 3 inches below the natural waistline, making bikinis a good choice for lower-cut pants. Full seat coverage plus a scooped-out leg line.


String Bikini The same rise and coverage as a bikini, but the front and back panels are connected with a small amount of material or “strings” at the sides, for a flirtatious look.


Low Rise Bikini Has a very low rise, typically 4-5 inches below the natural waistline. Combines full seat coverage with a more scooped out leg line.


Revealing Panties

G-string Full coverage in front, but only a very thin (string-like) band of fabric in the back that rests between the buttocks. Comes in a variety of rises in the waistline (from just below the natural waist to 4 inches below the natural waist).


Tanga “V”-shaped for “very sexy”. Tanga has the same V-shaped coverage in the front and back. Typically shows off about half of the buttocks. A European-style cut of panty.


Thong Gives full frontal coverage, but in back just a narrow piece of fabric rests between the buttocks. Comes in a variety of rises in the waistline (from just below the natural waist to 4 inches below the natural waist).

Curious


Curious

We meet at the coffee shop. You know the one. Of course I know the both of you, having met you here and Him at the gym. I arrive first taking a window booth hoping to catch you as you walk in. Knowing you have had a rough day you come in first to relax, a chance for us to catch up with each other, our day begins so early and can be stressful we get comfortable. I notice you fidgeting, you know I can tell by the cigarettes being smoked and the conversation isn’t as smooth as normal.
After about 30 minutes or so, I happen to see His car pull into the lot. I get a little nervous or is it excitement. Not certain, I know you both but to bring you together may be a mistake. I do know guys get uncomfortable when talking about sexual experiences and playing together. He walks to the coffee shop, I get up to meet Him and bring Him to the booth. I introduce you to Him and Him to you. Looking at both of you I wonder who is bi and who is just curious. I sit across from Him with you to my left. I slip my hand to your lap and already know there is sexual tension. Is it me or Him that has aroused you? We chat and I give out the room keys. We all have our own vehicles. I ask you to leave first and I’ll meet you at the room. I want to be there when you shower and change. I stay with Him a little longer making certain he is comfortable, willing to play and okay with the situation. I leave, paying the check, leaving him to wait a few minutes before arriving at the hotel.
Let me tell you about Him. He is all male as you are all male but loves to play with the ladies but has those tendencies to want to play with the guys. He will wear panties and lingerie when asked to play. Tonight he will be in panties. Tonight he will be all male, to play with you and I. As I said he plays with both.
At the hotel, I walk into the room. Hearing the shower, I step into the bathroom starting a conversation with you. I want you to be comfortable with Him coming tonight to play with us. This is His first time with us. Stepping out from under the shower I hand you a towel. You quickly dry off and I let you pass me as my hands brush over your torso and damp short hairs to feel your arousal. Stepping into the shower I warm up the water, shower in my scent, stepping out to have a towel given to me by Him. When did he arrive? Wrapping the towel around me, he enters the shower turns the water temp down, he doesn’t use my soaps but the hotel soap.
I see you pacing not certain what to do. You are in panties, bra, garter belt with white stockings and a full slip as I sit in the chair, to begin to dress, I beckon for you to come to me; I slip my hands around and into your panties, caressing your butt coming around to your semi hard arousal. Right now this is for me. Slipping my hands out, I caress your arousal between my palms, feeling you get harder. I don’t want you to cum, not yet. My tongue gently wets the outside of your panties. I hear the water is off; music is playing in the background. He approaches us. Standing behind you, he lets his hands come around to gently rub your erection as my tongue licks the outside of your panties. I see he wants to touch more; I slip out of the way to give Him access to you. He steps in closer to you bringing his hands to caress your torso rubbing over your nipples. He touches as I watch, I dress slipping into a garter belt and stockings, panties, bra and finally a full slip. I want to touch Him and you, join in the pleasure but right now it is just the two of you. I am the observer. I listen, watch the playing. I know by your look. You are still a bit leery of this situation. I take your hand bring you to the bed having you sit; I let my hands slide over your torso, just how we always play. Letting my hands slip over your nipples, letting my fingertips roll over them causing them to get hard like pebbles, as my tongue replaces my fingers, my hands travel to your lap. Letting my hands caress, spreading your legs wider to let my hands slide up and down. I see His reflection in the mirror. He has dressed in pink panties, soft cup bra and white thigh highs. He looks good, as you do in panties and stockings, a firm butt and gorgeous legs. He comes to me bends over to caress my breasts. You watch knowing this is what you wanted to have happen, me to play with you as I am being touched. You push back letting me lick and caress your cock and balls on the outside of your panties. As I move onto the bed He comes behind me and runs his hands over my now damp panties. You excite me with the simplest of touches, causing my pussy to wet my panties. His hands touching the outside not slipping into my panties, it isn’t me He is interested in. Keeping my hands wrapped around your pantied cock I move to the side. Giving Him access to both of us, he moves away from caressing me to you. He replaces my hands with his own. Caressing and sliding on the outside of the panties. I come close to you, to lick your nipples then slip away. I want my vibrating dildo. Getting it I lean into the chair pulling my panties to the side, you both watch as I slip the vibrator in. Slipping deeper into the chair I notice He has taken your cock out of your panties, giving me full view of his intentions. He licks your cock as you grab hold of the bed sheets. Is it as intense as when I do it? You watch as I slip the dildo in and out. I see you as He slips his mouth down over your cock. You know it isn’t me giving you the blowjob. I hear you; it is a whisper of pleasure. He knows how to please as he rides your cock with his mouth, sliding up and down. I know I am close to cumming. I want to cum as you fill up his mouth. With encouraging words from Him I am ready so ready so hot, I hear you; the tremble in your voice as He erupts into your mouth. He takes all of you in, licking up every last drop; I soak my panties, causing a wet spot to form. He comes to me and pushes my panties off to the side taking my wetness fully into His mouth. Finding my clit to suck on and then down to my lips, spreading them apart as He slips his tongue into me. Getting a cigarette and drink you sit back to watch me being pleased, letting another orgasm slowly cum as He licks out all the wetness.
Catching my breath I get up to get drinks, offering one to Him and another to you, separating ourselves, settling into the chair and bed in the room. Offering Him and you lubrication. I sit back and watch you both bring yourself to an arousal but not cum. It is something I have wanted to watch. To have a guy bring himself to arousal and as he cums then to take him into my mouth fully to swallow every last drop, this time as I watch you both stroke your cocks, it will be my pleasure to join in, slipping a dildo in and out, feeling the wetness cum, it is so easy to slide in and out. Leaning my head back I just let the sensation take over but I feel a hand reach out. Not certain who it is I come up out the chair, eyes closed, being led to the bed. Leaning back on the bed, I feel a tongue caressing the outside of my damp panties, nibbling on the mound made by my hard clit being aroused by the licking of a talented tongue. A tongue I have felt before and enjoyed. I raise my hips to meet a mouth a warm breath blows over my panties made damp. I feel my panties being pushed to the side. I feel my garter strap being snapped on my thigh. This is what it is like to have two guys playing, one to eat and lick, while the other teases, caressing and touching. Who is licking and who is teasing? With warm hands from Him I feel my breasts being caressed my nipples harden waiting to be suckled and licked. I hear a soft moan a purr. It didn’t come from me but you. Why what made you purr? Pushing myself up on my elbows I see He has come up next to you. Slipping His hands into your panties, he is caressing your cock. Making you aroused, getting you hard. He slips your cock out of your panties continually stroking, as He and I listen to the purring, the pleasure. You come up closer to me our eyes meet. We both know what is to happen. My panties pushed to the side I feel the dildo being slipped in and out, all the pleasure rises up in me, I feel the final stroke of the toy as a very hard cock is pushed in. I open my eyes, I knew it was you. I didn’t think He would slip his cock into me, as you push in and out I see Him stand up and come up behind you. Our eyes meet again; I know you want to know the feeling of a hard cock being slipped inside, to be penetrated. We have chatted so many times about this; I feel lubrication dripping onto my legs. He has squeezed lubrication on his cock as he slips your panties down letting His cock rub between your butt cheeks. Rubbing between your cheeks, rimming your rose bud with His cock head the question is there before us even now. We have a code, if it doesn’t feel right everything stops. No code is spoken as I feel you push in and hold on to me. He pulls your panties up pushes them to the side, He rubs up and down feeling your satiny nylon panties on your butt as His pantied cock slips in a little and out. You slip out of me. This next time as He pushes into you, you push into me. I feel you holding on, getting harder. Still no code as He continues and we continue. I feel the intensity from both of you. In rhythm we are being fucked. I bring my legs up around you to feel his hands reach out to bring the three of us into one. I hear us, the grunts, moans, and purr; we are all so ready to cum. I whisper please more in and out, please, I feel the agreement from you and Him that is all it takes Oh My! I feel the pleasure the tightening of my pussy caressing your cock inside me more and more push in and we are cumming together, riding in and out together, stroke for stroke letting the orgasm take us higher, higher over the edge trembling, Oh Yes the feeling of us all cumming at once, together holding on waiting waiting for the tremors to subside for the orgasm to subside. But not yet, sliding my legs down you push up over me so that your cock is resting between my breasts, pushing up further you push your cock head against my lips as He spreads my legs to gain access to my pussy lips. I take your cock into my mouth, to taste me on you, to feel the hardness of your cock in my mouth. As His tongue massages your rosebud, licking and tasting himself on you and in you. He moves from you to my pussy lips massaging them with His tongue opening them up to allow His tongue to enter. He tastes us in one lick. As I take your cock into my mouth He is tongue fucking me. Tasting you and me together, Oh NO! not certain I can take this so soon after you fucking me but there He is taking me again, taking me to higher heights with His tongue. Gripping your sides I look at you, you know this is what we wanted, to play hard together, sucking you taking you in deep tasting me on you this time, I cum you cum, as you grip the headboard to wait, to wait for the pleasure to subside. He brings my legs together as we wait for the tremors to subside. Pushing yourself from the headboard you ease yourself up and sit on the edge of the bed, I curl up next to you. As your hands caress me and your eyes tell me yes this is what our dream fantasy was all about. He sits in the chair resting as He watches us. I see His eyes, He has questions for us but will He ask them.
You lean down towards me, asking me to go down on Him. Your eyes are asking but is this what you want me to do? I go to the bathroom, pee and come back. In my hand I have a wash cloth and towel; I proceed to clean you and then Him from all the wetness and stickiness. Looking at you I kneel in front of the chair and begin to fondle Him with my warm hands, caressing his balls with my hands as I lick Him like a lollipop. Letting my wet tongue slide up and down not ready to take Him into my mouth. Taking His hand I lead Him to the bed push Him on to his back as I come between His legs. His knees are bent, feet flat on the bed and legs spread slightly apart. I go down on his cock. Taking him fully into my mouth, not gagging but in deep, I let my teeth rub His cock as I let his cock slip from between my cheeks. I hear Him moan, He has been told, I am good. You know how good I am. You know when He moans He is getting it good. I begin to slide up and down with Him in my mouth, listening for Him. My eyes are closed my hair falling brushing against His short hairs caressing His balls. I feel you near by. I feel your hands begin to caress my cheeks, your hands cup my pussy, tugging on my lips, your fingers reach in deeper to find my clit, your thumbs massage my clit letting me get aroused. Pushing my white panties to the side you let your cock reach in and touch my pussy but not entering, letting my clit feel the hardness. He is stretching out to hold on to sheets as you know I will have Him cumming, He will reach higher heights as I go down you push your hard cock into me and out taking the wetness from my pussy to penetrate a tight entrance. I slide down His cock and wait for you to enter. You push in and out in again going deeper. We are in rhythm. I go down and you go in, I come up you come out. Together in and out, up and down. Together we are three but one in rhythm, sliding up and down in and out. You hold on to my hips. He is ready, ready to cum explode in my mouth but no! Not in my mouth. With one last thrust you push in and out, I want you to cum but not inside me, catching your eye I ask you to stop fucking me. I want you to go down on Him. I slide out of the way giving you room to take him into your mouth. I got Him to this state of hardness now for you to finish what I started. You take His cock first in your hands, sliding up and down, feeling the rigid hard cock pulsate in your hands. I whisper for you to ride his cock, take him into your mouth. You take Him in first just the head, then you take Him in deeper, all the way down and back up. I see your eyes. I see the uncertainty but I whisper again for you to finish Him off. You ride His cock going down and up, using your mouth juices to keep Him hard. Riding His cock up and down, He takes the pleasure, enjoying the tension caused by me and you taking Him into your mouth. As I slip to the side I reach for the lubrication, squeeze it into my palm, rubbing my palms together as I gently take your cock from your white panties into my hands, slowly letting my hands slide up and down your shaft, made hard again by my hands as I slowly stroke your cock. Now this is the fantasy we have shared you sucking cock for me, me watching you as I stroke you to an explosive orgasm. He moans with readiness, telling you He is ready at a seconds notice. He wants to fill your mouth up but not yet, not yet as you slow down His readiness. You tease Him lick His shaft, suck His balls. You realize you may not get a second chance to have cock in your mouth. He is dripping down His hard shaft as you taste Him. He is begging for you to finish, begging to cum. You slide down His hard shaft and once again ride His cock this time in rhythm with me as I stroke your cock. I feel you are rigid, hard, dripping down your shaft. I feel the tremors coming. Both of you are concentrating feeling the pleasure; not ready for Him to cum in your mouth to taste His cum, you let him slip out of your mouth and He explodes in your hands, you cum in my hands. I feel the tremor. Letting us have a moment He watches. Still with his questions unanswered.
He gets up off the bed. He takes me by the hand, kisses my palm, moves into the bathroom. He showers, and comes out drying himself. You follow him taking a shower. He comes to me. We talk He knows this was a dream fantasy fulfilled for you and me and possibly Him as well. He dresses, leaving behind an invitation for more to come. My turn to shower as you come out of the bathroom, I enter the bathroom take a shower. Drying myself off with a towel I come out of the bathroom you are dressed and ready to get on home. I dress quickly not drying my hair but it is time to get on home. You see the open invitation from Him. We grin, laugh and know our dream fantasy was full filled handing me the invitation I slip it into suitcase for safe keeping. One last check of the room, we have left things behind before never to have them again, everything is packed. We walk out of the room leaving the 3 room keys behind knowing there will be more play times to come.

Gentle Kisses


Gentle kisses along the chin, neck and ear
Moving my hair away to get a closer kiss.
Sniff the air you catch the lavender scent that I shampoo in and bathe in
Sliding hands over my breasts drawing me closer
Inhaling my breath
Sharing kisses and tongues
The moan and purring of the closeness of touches
So intimate
Unbuttoning my blouse, slipping it over my head caressing my breasts within white satiny bra
Leading to the bed
Standing in front of you
You unbuttoning my slacks
Pulling down both slacks and panties
Brushing ever so slightly by accident of course my intimate parts
Knowing the scent of wet hot intimate parts
Slipping a finger in between my legs
Separating my lips
Gentle kisses and caresses
Bringing me down on the bed
Spreading my hair over the bed
Running your hands thru my hair, ouch don’t tangle it
Touching and running your hands down
Licking and teasing my nipples listening for the moans of pleasure
Slipping your fingers thru my hairs finding swollen lips and clit
Wetness fills your palm
We share the taste
As I notice a definite hardness as I press my palm to your slacks
Sooooooon to be resting inside a warm wet home


VPLs

Do you know what VPL stands for?
I'll be back with an explanation and more.




When I was first introduced to guys in panties, I really had no clue about what VPL meant. It was a moderator on a forum, he told me VPL= visible pantie line. I don't intentionally look for pantie lines but they are noticeable on the ladies. It is amazing because pantie lines can be observed. Even the type of panties the ladies are wearing can be seen. The styles worn are bikini to full brief panties. Some smooth and caressing the cheeks nicely or so baggy I wonder if they are comfortable.

I have yet to observe a pantie line on guys. Even when I knew the guy had panties on I couldn't actually see a pantie line. When I slipped my hand into his back pocket then I could feel the panties he was wearing, which lead me to caress his firm round cheeks. If you have a VPL I would love to see a picture. Remember a VPL is visible after you have slipped on your clothes. Do you check yourself out in the mirror looking for VPL? Just wondering!

Let me know.

Do you think guys should shave or wax down there?


For decades women have been shaving, waxing and Nairing their bikini line, and during the "Sex and the City" era, some of that grooming pressure was transferred to men. Well, the people at Gillette have declared ball shaving season, and even launched a series of instructional videos including "How to Shave Your Groin."Sure, women may like the look and feel of a less hairy man, but Gillette lets guys in on another advantage: "trimming the bush to make the tree look taller." This line is guaranteed to work on guys: if they can make themselves look more endowed just by shaving, why not give it a try?Now for the real question: do we really like our men shaved? Sure, some regular maintenance is appreciated, but do we need our guys hairless? Would it be strange for a guy to have less hair down there than we do?
(from shine)

Its a Girl Thing

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Its a Girl thing!

Wives and Girlfriends

I am not a wife or girlfriend of a guy who enjoys the lingerie fetish. I have had guys ask why I find pleasure and enjoyment with guys in lingerie. I was slowly brought into the world of a pantie/lingerie fetish. I have a good friend or two who introduced me to this fetish. At times it is difficult for me to answer this question, but it is sensual, erotic and I get warm fuzzies all over. To be able to caress touch and slide hands over a guy in soft fabrics is erotic. My palms get itchy. I want to pleasure him in sexual ways as much as I want to be pleasured. I have been told I am unique one of a kind, I don't think I am. I am certain there are wives and girlfriends who would find pleasure with their guy in lingerie, wives and girl friends need to be brought carefully into the lingerie fetish world. To go beyond the lingerie fetish is another discussion.

You need to help your wife/girlfriend be comfortable with the pantie/lingerie fetish. I believe this to be important to a relationship. Taking the wife or girl friend into consideration will make any relationship stronger. Explaining your fetish may take time on your part. This acceptance will not happen over night if at all. Tolerance maybe the word instead of acceptance. Think, what are the right words, the right time and place. Definitely not after a long day coming in from work or when uncertain feelings arise or when other issues are being discussed. Don't wait to be 'caught'. To be caught is frightening to the wife or girlfriend. The feeling of being cheated on is difficult on the wife or girlfriend. It is more then the cheating it is a sense of betrayal and fear of abandonment. It is a emotional roller coaster for women. Like any new development in a relationship you need to explain or discuss your pantie fetish handling it carefully. Dragging out all your lingerie at the beginning probably isn't a good place to begin. Neither is flaunting your fetish in her face. Don't even bother with self portraits you have taken. You need to use your words to explain your desire for wearing lingerie. At the same time you need to talk about your sexuality. She might think right away that you are gay or bi anything but heterosexual. You need to explain how wearing panties makes you feel, why you like to wear panties and possibly other items. Just mentioning anything related to the idea that it makes you feel feminine or you like the girly feeling you get when wearing lingerie will scare her, if you are into wearing womens clothing that is for another discussion. Its a concept most women don't or won't understand. Remember she got into the relationship because she thought you were all guy, 100% masculine any other sexual identity will have her concerned about her role in the relationship. What role will she have in the relationship? Will she be competing with you, who has the more beautiful lingerie or who looks better wearing the lingerie. You enjoying your fetish isn't a competition with your wife or girlfriend. Remember she got into this relationship knowing or thinking you were all guy. This might take time for her to accept and trust you once she acknowledges your lingerie fetish. Once she acknowledges your fetish her trust will need to be restored. The doubts will be there and the questions will resurface, especially at times when she sees more items being bought. Don't be selfish there 2 of you in the relationship, it's not all about you.

Women are emotional sexual beings. Which makes us different from men, when dealing with relationship issues. We deal with issues with our hearts first, then we deal with issues using our heads.

Lingerie


At this very moment I am having a conversation with a guy that I haven't heard from in awhile. The last time was when his then girlfriend now wife found pictures of him in very sexy sensual erotic lingerie. I kept him on the friends list but sort of thought he was going to try to purge the panties and bras. And I didn't think he would be back online, at least not talking to me. As he has said and others have told me I am one of a kind, even unique in my understanding of the lingerie fetish. The wife understands his lingerie fetish accepts it to a degree, especially the panties, you know the standard line, its just underwear! But this friend from the UK has stayed with his lingerie fetish. He wears stockings, thigh highs so he doesn't shave the legs he said it would make his wife real uncomfortable. I like that, a husband who thinks of his spouse and her acceptance of his fetish. He is another 100% masculine guy who loves lingerie. Dresses in lingerie when he can, wears as often as he can without making the wife uncomfortable.

There are many guys who wear lingerie they look for another person who understands their 'fetish'. Someone who they can share pictures and have a conversation. They want a person who accepts them for being a guy without their sexual identity being challenged. I have had many of those types of conversations with guys from around the world. They say I am unique maybe so but what is upsetting many of these guys have wives who are frightened. Many of these wives worry their husband is gay or bi or somthing else. They worry they might lose their husband. Make the wife comfortable, like my UK friend dress up when she isn't around but also enjoy the parts of your fetish with her that makes her most comfortable. We all want to feel secure in our relationships. I must also add that any lingerie fetish of any kind, you or your spouse shouldn't be talked into doing something that doesn't make you both feel comfortable. A new friend found out about my love of guys in lingerie. He purchased panties. Yes he got a hard erection but don't most guys get an erection when they slip into panties. This fetish is more then wearing panties, to an extent it is a life style. Something you cant be talked into its more then snagging panties out of the clothes dryer for self pleasuring. I have lost panties from the dryer.

It's not only your fetish, its your spouses also, it's about relationship and comfort zone.

(N)

Roaring Ocean





This morning I woke up with the ocean roaring, a gentle breeze and quiet. I made a cup of tea and walked out to the ocean. With the waves crashing on the beach, sat down to watch the sun come up. I miss the ocean, the roar of the waves crashing on the beach. Even the quietness when the beach is deserted. Hopefully the beach will be quiet for a few more minutes. Its a long weekend and the first weekend of a promising summer.

Before I could take a 15 minute drive and be at the beach. I would go early in the morning to watch the sun come up. Its peaceful if you can call the ocean peaceful. I have seen the ocean when it was angry, waves rushing in churning up the sand. I have seen the ocean when it was silent, still and smooth as a piece of glass. I have been to the beach when a storm has came in, and when a storm is in the distance, listening for sound of thunder then watching for the lightening bolts. When the storm has passed over wishing for a rainbow to appear. I have seen many rainbows; a double rainbow (one inside the other), then the other day after a terrible storm the brightest rainbow appeared with colors so distinct and bright. I watched this rainbow from the rear view mirror of my car.

Today, it was very early in the morning when I arrived. I had to drive several hours to get to the beach. So I could take a cup of tea, walk out to see the ocean. Being at the beach for a day or two will be restful. There is something about watching the ocean come in, high tide then low tide. I am not certain I can explain it but its that feeling, the salt air, the breeze and the cold water on the toes, then scrambling back when a wave breaks. Its just is.....
Now this evening, I will watch the sunset at the beach, this time with a margarita enjoying the quiet to come as all the families go home. Listening again to the crash of the waves as they roar onto the beach. Walking along the shoreline stopping to pick up a shell or two. I have an assortment of shells, I collect as reminders of my walks on the shore, the coast. What is so amazing, I can walk along the shore here and know this same ocean with its waves is crashing onto a distance beach just up the coast.

Its just so amazing ...

Memorial Day

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This weekend we as Americans celebrate Memorial Day. If you come up to NYC, it is fleet week. Many military folks will be around taking in the sights of the city. Take the time to say Thank You. They are doing a job that keeps us all safe. Not just today from terrorists but in years past WWI, WWII, Korean, Vietnam, Gulf Wars, Iraq and Afghanistan we have been kept safe. Then of course thank all the military folks stationed around the world they should not be forgotten.

This weekend especially display the Stars and Stripes with pride. Don't own the Stars and Stripes then this is the weekend to purchase a flag and display it with pride. We have lots to be thankful for and to be proud of every day.

skirts


A couple of days ago I had a conversation with a friend. I am not certain how to describe him; like most he is all guy but loves lingerie and is as kinky as hell. For some reason he likes to test me. He knows me, he knows I am open minded and won't judge him. He asked once again about guys wearing skirts. I am trying to remember if there are other guys that I know from different forums that would wear a skirt for everyday wear,there isn't. I do believe Steven is the only guy I know that wants to be able to wear a skirt to work instead of dress slacks. In the last couple of days I have heard about 2 guys; where wearing a skirt wasn't acceptable. In one case the man was harassed by a police officer. The second item was an incident at a middle school the student wanted to wear a kilt but the principal told the boy that the outfit could be misconstrued as cross-dressing. So much for open mindedness.

The discussion goes back to what our society will permit guys to wear. It seems acceptable for girls (women, ladies and females) to wear whatever fashion or style we want. I wear slacks more often then skirts because of my profession, its easier. So why not guys in skirts. Just remember wearing a skirt isn't the same as wearing slacks, especially when bending over and on windy days! My next statement may get me into trouble but a skirt coordinated with his jacket and shirt is appropriate. (OT: that could get my mind wandering.) I always tell Steven go for it. He does try a lot of stuff, he wears lingerie under his suit each day. I hope there will come a day when he will take the step and wear a skirt to work. I also know he wouldn't do anything that would make his wife feel uncomfortable. What a good guy!

Guys wear shorts (all different lengths), and bathing suits why not a skirt? Show off the legs!

Rascal Flatts

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Here Comes Goodbye

Beauty Products












I was in the middle of taking a shower this morning and realized I need to purchase shower gel/soap. I got to wondering just how many products I use as I get dressed in the morning. In the shower I use 4 products; shower soap, hair shampoo and conditioner. Conditioner has two purposes as most of us know. I also use a shower shaver under the arms, up and down the legs, and if time permits a touch up on the most sensitive area. Once out of the shower I use one maybe two more products. If the face feels too dry after the shower just a light touch of lotion. The other products deal with my teeth. My dentist has been getting on my case so I try to take extra care of them. Now to walk to the bedroom and get dressed. One more beauty product, the scent of lavender under the arms. Then slipping into lingerie, slacks and blouse, then socks. I don't wear stockings or pantyhose with my slacks, just too much clothing. With my shoes I wear a thin pair of anklet socks, matching of course to my slacks. I very rarely not match under the clothes. Then a quick look in the mirror to be certain everything is tucked in and looking just right. Go through the earrings to find the right pair to wear. They need to be better organized, some mornings I have to dump the tray on the bed to find a matching pair! That can be frustrating for me. Now to step back into the bathroom, eye drops so my eyes don't dry out, oh the pain of dry eyes. The finishing touches, makeup! OMG! look at the time! touch up under the eyes, a little color on the eyelids, a little mascara on the upper lashes only! Another quick look, looking good, lol!! Walk back into the bedroom slip into shoes as I reach for my fav cologne from Victoria Secrets. I love the scent, a spray up and down the arms, around the neck once into the hairbrush to run through my hair. Now I think I am ready to head to the front door. I can accomplish all this in 45 minutes!!! I didn't mention the hair drying either!

I count 14 items, how many products do you use as you are getting dressed in the morning? I never realized how many I used. Now to add up the expense maybe not, just to get out the door in the morning!!! Its amazing all the fuss and cost. But I do look good!!! LOL












Have you been Replaced


Self pleasuring is self gratifying, it doesnt replace the real thing. I have toys, a couple I keep under my bed pillows, within reach, others i keep in the dresser drawer. Self pleasing occurs daily. It is a good start to my day and a especially nice way to end a stress filled day.
So have you been replaced?

Howard




Let's talk about Howard. Remember Howard is the lawyer I know from another state. When I first met Howard he came to the meeting straight from court. Let me say it was November and cold but anyway he looked so rushed and disshevled. I believe his tie was untied and top button of his shirt undone, he must have had a long day in court. Nothing about him caught my eye. We had a good conversation, I signed some papers, he said he would get things moving along, I left the meeting hoping what he said was actually going to happen. Attire is so important.

Let me jump to Spring, I had to meet with Howard again, signed more papers, had a discussion but this time we met in his office. I knew from a conversation we had a week prior that he was going on vacation, he didnt mention where but when we met on that spring afternoon, I knew where he went. This beautiful gorgeous guy went to a warm climate and came back with a tan. But it wasnt the tan that really had me thinking about Howard in a non professional way. It was tough to stay tuned into the conversation. It was the way Howard was dressed. Even now when I have the image of him in my mind, I can yes to wanting to caress him, hoping under the slacks he would have panties on and under his mock turtleneck shirt a soft bra or camisole. It is one of the things I do when I see a gorgeous guy. I let myself think just how beautiful that gentleman would look wearing panties and bra. If I have enough time to think and watch without being caught I would even go beyond the panties and bra, perhaps a slip or a teddi. I was sent a site last night from a friend from downunder damn I know several items on that site I would love to purchase and send to a friend north of the border or even to a friend just a few miles down the road. Perhaps if either of them read this he might ask for the site. Possibly make purchases of their own, hey they might know the site as I write this posting.

Even the way Howard was seated in his office chair so relaxed, it was tough keeping my mind on the matters at hand. How do guys do it? Feet on the desk, reclined in the chair, fingers entwined together behind his head, just having an ordinary conversation. Not realizing what was going through my mind. By the way Howard did have shoes and socks on, socks matching his slacks. For me it is one of those items about guys, white socks have their place just not with dress slacks.

Guys take care when you dress this morning, I might be the one watching and wondering just how you wuld look in panties and bra!

email answered, I hope!


Morning,
Pantie wearing is a fetish, you know I enjoy guys in panties. I am not even certain why I find pleasure in the lingerie fetish, to caress and feel the softness on a guy makes me aroused. It could be the silhouette, just as a guy dressed in slacks and shirt catches my attention. Other postings have alerted you to the fact I people watch. Being on the soccer field yesterday all afternoon, I did check out the guys to see how they dressed in their uniforms and how they presented themselves. It is the guy who takes care in how he dresses I consider 'more' beautiful. He can be wearing jeans and a t shirt or a business suit or something in between. Presentation of who you are begins on the outside only later to reveal the you on the inside.


To know that the guy I am with or talking to enjoys that same fetish is very pleasing. It is a society issue that tends not to accept guys in panties. It isn't discriminating. Go to http://www.pantiesetc.com/ and read the conversation over there! If our society and culture would let people be people, to enjoy themselves in whatever they endeavor many would have a happier life. I believe more people would be happy with themselves and their lives. When guys openly express to their SO their desire to wear lingerie it should add to the relationship but in some cases it hasn't. I am sorry for that, it hurts to hear a SO doesn't want to accept and enjoy his lingerie fetish. A guy is a guy, all man who simply enjoys lingerie. Enjoy the new excitement that the lingerie fetish brings to your relationship. Our parents in many ways have set in our minds what the world should look like, how to behave, what is 'normal' clothing for your sex. Guys in panties/lingerie aren’t gay or homosexuals. That is the fear so many SOs have. That the person they love isn’t the person who they thought they were.

I am not certain I have helped, your SO enjoys the lingerie to a point and that is good.



Please remember I am not a psychologist. and hold no degrees in mental health or behavioral science.

Need Confidence


All men need self confidence. Slip on panties before dressing. Be confident all day.

Men's Health

Its a magazine. As a matter of fact I was sitting in the lawyers office waiting to see Howard. Howard will be part of another discussion, omg he is beautiful. I usually have a book with me but this time I left it in the car. Sometimes it is good to glance at a magazine that is 2 years old. I don't think I have seen this magazine before but on the cover is a gorgeous guy, tight /hard looking nipples and muscular. Oh Lord! his pecks and stomach are for caressing and pleasuring. The cover got me looking inside the magazine, but the table of contents got me turning the pages. I can say I haven't looked in a men's magazine before but I did ask Howard if I could take this magazine home with me. I can say by looking quickly at the magazine I would recommend getting a subscription for your SO. I will be giving this magazine more then a glance. The articles! I have looked at are advice columns how to pleasure themselves when the SO is away and more. Men's Health is definitely a guys magazine.

I did it, today

I left a posting a few days ago about a group, I was the assistant manager. Today since I am home, the group has been deleted. It is very hard because it is like saying good bye to someone you have told your deepest darkest secrets to and now that person is gone. Its like a part of you has died, left a hole in a place that was once filled by friends across the internet.

Saying good bye to friends has always been tough for me. Even tougher when they just stop IMing, emailing and talking. What is worse you get caught up in your own world of stuff when one day you realize they are gone, you haven't heard from them in a few days, you leave an IM only to not have it replied to. Then you know they are gone not saying bye just leaving.

my heart hurts, i don't like good byes. but i guess no one really does. so u stop the emails, and the IMs and you turn off the cell phone because you know that person will not be there to answer your call.

life hurts at times.

panties and bras


You will need to use your imagination to make that bra red like mine.

I really do try to match my panties and bra. Sometimes they aren't actually sets but the same color and fabric. I recently found my red bra and panties in the drawer. My lingerie drawer is over stuffed. You could walk into my bedroom and find panties and bras laying on top of the dresser. Its amazing I can find matching colors let alone matching sets at 5:30 am with that mess. I bought my red panties and bra for Valentines Day this year. Last Valentines Day I bought heart covered panties. This year solid red. I don't own alot of red clothing but this set I like, is red a sexy color?? Right now I am in pink underneath.
I really like the red bra. It is one of those molded type, my breasts fit nice and smooth inside the cups. I even think it is a nicer fitting bra then the lace and embroidered bras I own. The underwire gives the support 44DD's need. A shopping trip is in order for the new style and hopefully new colors will be in the store. I love color.
This bra rambling on is about my guy wearing a bra; me wanting to caress his nipples, lick his nipples and yes even making them hard as pebbles. I know I do! He may not want to admit it. So please give me another wake up call at 5:30 am. I want to know what you are wearing to work.

closing of a group


I am a assistant manager of a worldgroup group! LOL The manager of the group has been locked out of the group so he has asked that I approve members and postings. I have done that for him. There is very little traffic on that group. I post messages but rarely does anyone else. Many love to look at the photos that have been uploaded. Recently Rob has asked that I go ahead and shut done the group. Reluctantly I have begun to do that. I approved that last 2 members today. I will give them a chance to look over the group then one last time I will email the members telling them the group will be gone.

Rob is in poor health asks that he be kept in prayers. He was a Conservative speech writer before retiring. My kind of speech writer. I will miss the emails that we shared. He kept me on my conservatives toes. You can love your country but not always the people who run it.

Light a candle and keep Rob in your prayers, N

Shopping, again

Being away from home for a few days, has made me feel so tired. Then this week I have taught 18 classes in 2 days, helping students with online class work and assisting students find biographies for their 4Th quarter book reports/projects. My day didn't end at 3:18, one afternoon I was at a professional development class (the history of Loudoun County) and another day after school I was at a department meeting and this afternoon I was after school cutting letters for a new bulletin board. Last but not least completing my grant proposal for next school year. I am tired. So I am taking tomorrow off. Just to sleep in and to run needed errands here at home, stuff I can't do on the weekend. This Saturday my PD class meets for a field trip. I need a vacation. At least the weather has gotten a little better.

All those reasons are my excuses for not getting to my email this week. Just too tired to respond intelligently.I have emails from the friend who wants me to go shopping with him. His second email request included a story about how our shopping trip will go down. I have agreed to go shopping with him before but I know that is scary for him no matter how many emails he sends asking me to go shopping with him, it is his fantasy.

this is his story from the email:

We'd meet up at Leesburg Premium Corner, outside the Lane Bryant Outlet. We'd go in together, heading immediately to the lingerie section. If any of the sales staff asked, you would say we're shopping for bra and panties. They have a big table filled with satin panties. We would grab a bunch, and we would hold them up to each other. I would say that you would look cute in these, and you would hold them up to me saying these panties would be so cute on you, we should buy a matching pair. You would grab a few tops and skirts, and we would go into the dressing room together. I would try the bras on you, and you would see how I looked in the panties. You would be bottomless, and I would finger your pussy and asshole as you tried on bras. You would pull out my cock and rub it on the satin panties. We would then buy panties and bras, and you would ask if you could wear some of the items out. We'd go back in to the dressing room, where you would take off my pants, take my boxers away from me, and dress me in panties. We would then go to the Maidenform and Hanes outlets, where you would tell them you are looking for bras and panties to match my panties (pulling mine up to show them). We would repeat at Kohls. Very important ---- at some point either in the dressing room or the car you would blow me to completion, swallowing my load whole. You would also lick my asshole after you blew me. You in?


He has a good fantasy some day it may become more then a fantasy for him. Many talk but no one really walks the talk. I know that first hand.

On the Road, again

No pantie talk this morning, so my apologizes. But anyway.....



Yes, I am on the road again, living out of a suitcase for a few days. At least I get to be with family this week, running errands with them, it seems when I am with them it is an endless list of appointments and stuff to do. These trips aren't restful.



I did finally get my car washed. I have wanted to do that all winter but no car washes in my town! Once my car had its bath, I could put on the recent magnets I purchased at the Dulles Airport and the one from Florida which I got, after donating a few $$ to relay for life, the others I bought at the Americas Store waiting for my flight to Florida. I have always wanted a USA flag, finally found one and the other magnet I think speaks for how I feel about the newly elected officials in Washington. "I love my country, its the government I don't like". I have some intense discussions with a friend, he keeps me on my toes with all matters of the world. I keep my eyes wide open!



It is time to dress and get to another appointment, I need a vacation. This morning it will be pink underneath blue jeans and blouse.

So enjoy this glorious day but a sad day, this is the day HE gave his life for us.

Now I am rambling!!! waiting for my turn in the bathroom!!!

Undercovers


snuggled under my warm covers waiting to make the call in the morning sliding my fingers into my panties the first touch of the day over my unaroused clit and dry lips waiting to hear the voice that will begin a ride of pleasure slipping my hand under the pillow touching my dildo that is there the vibrator that is there pulling them both out first to slip the c__k into my mouth, wanting to feel the head and firmness desiring a c__k in my mouth to feel soft to firm to taste the first drops but not this morning slipping the vibrator between my lips to begin between the lips riding up and down accidentally touching my clit or is it on purpose? feeling the warmth begin the wetness to ease my dildo in but first to reach for the phone dial the number that will bring a pleasant start to my day there is a subdued hello and a laugh he laughs usually at this time, why? he tells me what panties he is wearing this morning he tells me he has on 2 panties, he can even tell me the brand and style, I am still amazed how guys in panties know brands and styles! i know he will cum with me this morning we do cum together it is the beginning of our day easing us into the real world of being awake and alive he has gotten more aggressive using words that arouse being explicit gone the nice nice words the aggressiveness brings me to higher heights more explosive orgasms if only he knew my secret? or should I tell him slipping my dildo in and out hearing his encouraging voice i am close so close, i hear his voice get deeper with anticipation so ready with him the words have gotten shorter, his voice gotten deeper i know he is so ready ready to explode with me, I am begging for him to cum with me, i hold waiting for that time to cum together then its there over the top together then a more subdued oh yeah! then in parting it is get out of bed lazy one, shower and get on to school we will talk later hanging up the phone, i don’t do as I am told immediately but stay in bed still aroused cumming again with the aid of my vibrator hearing the time, I now know it is time to rush into the kitchen put on the kettle for tea take the needed shower and dress for school

People Watching II


I did travel to Florida on Saturday. As I was waiting for my flight, I just had to sit back and watch people. I did spot a few watching me, why I have no clue except to say I was dressed in pink bra and panties and black; jeans, blouse (tank top, fitted nicely 44DD) with an over blouse of pink, white and black stripes. Anyway watching others is what I enjoy. The first person that comes to mind tonight is the lady that sat down near me, she had on white capris with her lace hi cut panties showing through, the lacy panties fit nice, no baggy panties on her. If I noticed I am certain others did. A couple of others caught my interest but they were 2 cute little girls watching their Dad wave at them to come to him. Those 2 little girls stood their ground until Dad came for them. Cute kids. No one else in the gate area caught my interest. But over time I seem to watch guys butts. I check them out looking for the round firm cheeks, that I would love to caress checking for panties. Its the firm curved cheeks that would fit perfectly into panties. There would be no bagginess but having the pantie cling to his cheeks, possibly showing a pantie line. I keep watching and hoping one day to catch a guy with firm cheeks in panties.

People Watcher

I will be headed to the airport in just a few minutes. I am getting abit anxious I don't know why, it just happens. I have traveled to many places by myself this time it just feels different.


I have checked emails and IMs even caught a few old friends online. One friend is in Kuwait to assist Georgetown University setting up the IT stuff in one of their buildings. He just arrived and I know already his family misses him. He has had some tragedy in his family this past year, beginning with losing his job in Arizona, his wife having breast cancer and now he is in the Middle East for a couple years. Hopefully his family will be able to join him during their summer break.


Then even an older friend caught me online. Being caught online probably has something to do with spring break, everyone is online. He is bi, he is one guy that I knew before moving to Virginia. He and I talk about everything and anything related to his sexuality. He has multiple fetishes, so many I wonder if he knows his sexual identity. He is cool, a computer wizard. You need to remember I am not a psychologist, I talk from my heart and experiences. Being discreet, honest, open, and non judging.

I do love to people watch. I guess it began when I noticed how people eat ice cream or french fries. Usually it is finger food that attracts me to watch people. If they could see themselves in the mirror just how erotic and sensual it is for them to eat finger foods, licking their fingers, letting their tongues slip around their lips. The next time you are eating fries, pay attention to how you eat them and how you lick your fingers to taste the seasonings. Better yet watch the person that is sitting across the table from you or next to you. Maybe a message is being sent to you and you haven't learned the secret code.

Guys in Panties



This is so strange, really it is. Repeatedly I get asked how or why I love guys in panties. Here is the answer.




Where to begin? I met a fireman, 6 years ago who wore panties and lingerie. When I first met him he introduced me to men in panties forums. I still do check in with those forums weekly. It still surprises me how many guys still order their lingerie by mail or if they have a girlfriend or wife the two of them shop together. Which I think is terrific! Lingerie is so sexy, sensual and erotic, keeps the relationship fresh. I love to see a masculine guy, all male in lingerie. It is such a turn on to touch and caress that guy in soft satiny silky lingerie. I do miss this part of my life, I know 'J' is really busy, too busy for his health, I want him to take time off from work so we can both enjoy what we find exciting and pleasurable. Talking this afternoon, I found out he is working over the weekend, again. Why does everyone need their cable/internet hook ups, I say to 'J' let them read, he laughs.

This week I heard from a friend, he lives very close by but we have never met. I have not sent him panties nor have I gone shopping for him. Doing any of those things would send him into frenzy! Its true many guys are fearful that others will find out. This week alone I had gotten several emails from him begging me to take time off from teaching to go shopping with him. Its not just selecting lingerie but also to join him in the fitting room. This wasn't the first time he has asked me to do this with him and it won't be the last. This is an absolute turn on for him to fantasize me joining him. I do encourage him to shop for himself, he does. He did go shopping, he sent me a list of what he purchased. I won't hear from him again until he has the urge to go lingerie shopping again. It would shake his foundation if I ever did agree to shop with him.

When someone finds out I am into guys in lingerie I don't push the issue. I will talk about it but not ask that guy to wear panties, pantie wearing guys is my fetish, not theirs. I have written stories about couples enjoying each others sexuality, they have a good relationship with each other, lingerie is the frosting on that relationship. Lingerie keeps that relationship fresh and exciting. My writings are fantasies. I don't know of many relationships that are solid when the husband wears lingerie. Some husbands hide their fetish waiting for that minute when the wife goes out or others wear lingerie routinely with the wife smirking or shrugging her shoulders. How sad! It breaks my heart. But that guy isn't mine, my guy is in the stories I write. He lets me into his life if only through the words I write.

On the forums many talk but few walk the talk. I know that because to walk the talk means moving in a forward direction, some prefer to stand still sinking deeper with each step, change is the step moving forward, this is scary and fearful. Now I wonder did 'P' purchase panties after reading one of my stories? for that answer I need to go to the forum and read.

Being Me


I have a friend that is in a very unsafe place in this world. He is a embedded Army journalist in Iraq. He has written a couple of books that I want others to take a look at, the first being 182 Days in Iraq and the second being Iraq in Pictures. The first book is Phil's life in Iraq for 6 months. I haven't gotten to far into the book because it is very tough for me to read. The dedication and prologue brought me to tears. My heart ached. I told Phil he owes me a box of tissues. But I will read it but probably in small doses. The second book is full of pictures that Phil and other Army soldiers had taken while they were in Iraq. Both books need to be looked at and read. The books illustrate why it is important for American troops and other troops to be in Iraq. I am one American that is proud of what our troops are doing in Iraq. I lived close to the World Trade Towers before 9/11, during the clean up and afterwards when everyone was trying to heal from that massacre. I know I can't come close to the war like place Phil is in right now, Camp Striker, but I know what it was like to have helicopters fly just above tree level going back and forth over Long Island and then going to the beach and seeing a US carrier sitting off the coast. No matter how you feel about the Iraq War, you must support the troops and pray for their safety every day.