Foods to Put You in the Mood

Throughout history, food has been linked to good health and increased sexual desire. Casanova, the famous Venetian womanizer, was known to munch on oysters, while honey was supposedly Aphrodite’s nectar du jour when it came to improving sexual performance. Sure, a romantic candlelit dinner can do wonders when it comes to creating a relaxed, intimate, sensual mood, but the foods we consume also appear to have a direct correlation to increased sexual appetite. According to researchers, the taste, smell and appearance of food can also act as powerful aphrodisiacs.
Whether you’re looking to rev things up with a new guy or spice up an established relationship, try indulging in some of these high-powered sexy edibles; all ten have been shown to kick-start your libido, revive sexual performance and enhance overall health.
Almonds
Historically, almonds have long been a symbol of fertility. A healthy source of protein, they're a natural energy booster, which, in turn, can increase in sexual drive. Additionally, the scent is said to excite women, so it’s not surprising that almond oil is a common ingredient in soaps and lotions. The almond also has roots in the Bible, where Samson wooed Delilah with aromatic almond branches.
Asparagus
This erotic vegetable may be the quintessential libido booster as it contains high levels of vitamin E, which aids in producing sex hormones. After being dubbed an aphrodisiac during the Renaissance, asparagus was later banned from the dining tables of most convents. The Vegetarian Society suggests “eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful effect.”
Avocado
It’s not surprising that the Aztecs called the avocado tree, ahuacatl or "testicle tree” based on how much its fruit resembles the male body part. This green tropical marvel also contains vitamin B6, which increases male hormones, and potassium, which aids in regulating the female thyroid gland. Both B6 and potassium are reported to increase libido.
Bananas
Its suggestive shape aside, this popular fruit also contains bromelain, an enzyme which aids in boosting male libido. On top of this, bananas contain potassium and B vitamins, such as riboflavin, which raise the body's overall energy levels.
Celery
Celery may not be the first food that comes to mind when it comes to increasing sexual desire. But this crunchy, low-cal veggie contains an odorless hormone called androsterone, which, when released through male perspiration, is known to increase female sexual arousal.
Chillis
Hot, spicy chilli peppers contain capsaicin, a chemical known to release endorphins and create a feeling of happiness and pleasure. Chillis can increase blood flow and heart rate, and they also stimulate nerve endings, resulting in increased sexual urges.
Chocolate
Dubbed the “love chemical,” the Aztec emperor Montezuma was said to consume large amounts of chocolate in an effort to enhance his sexual prowess before entering his harem. During modern times, researchers have attributed chocolate’s aphrodisiac properties to the stimulant phenylethylamine, which creates a general sense of well-being, similar to an endorphin rush.
Chocolate also releases the amino acid tryptophan, which produces the neurotransmitter serotonin. Known as "the feel-good brain hormone," serotonin helps to stabalize mood and diminish anxiety, all great calming aides that ultimately boost sexual desire.
Figs
Originally from Syria – and allegedly Cleopatra’s fave food – this ancient, erotic, fleshy fruit replicates female genitalia in its appearance. Figs are high in amino acids, which increase libido and boost sexual stamina. In some Southern European countries wedding guests toss figs instead of rice, to encourage fertility.
Ginger
Reports on the effects of ginger date back as far as Chinese philosopher, Confucius (500 B.C.), who was said to never be without the tangy herb. It is also referred to in the Kama Sutra as a powerful aphrodisiac. Fresh ginger root stimulates your circulatory system, improves blood flow to sexual organs, and contains libido-lifting Vitamin C, zinc and magnesium.
Oysters
Bearing a strong resemblance to female genitalia, oysters are widely-regarded as a powerful aphrodisiac – and for good reason. High in the mineral zinc, which contributes to testosterone production, these slippery mollusks also contain D-aspartic acid, a powerful chemical that triggers the release of sex hormones.

Sleep Time Lingerie For Men






What better time of day to enjoy lingerie than at night, when the world has gone to bed, the land is cloaked in darkness and the realm of dreams takes over, for a few short hours to become reality. If you're not yet enjoying lingerie as part of your nighttime routine, you can be in very short order.

Nylon nightgowns are a popular choice for many men who enjoy the sensation of being enfolded in their favorite fabric. Then there's also the fact that a gown is one of the most feminine types of attire a man can wear, which makes for double the fun.

If a nightgown is going too far, how about a babydoll?

Babydoll
Babydolls are popular pieces of short nightwear, they're designed to fall to the upper thigh and to flare out slightly when worn, which makes them very cute and feminine. Some babydolls spilt open underneath the cleavage, exposing the stomach, however traditional babydolls do not split. Whilst a split looks vaguely alluring, it is not of much use to a man who likes the sensation of wearing a nice piece of lingerie. Most babydolls tend to be low cut, so a shaved chest is a perfect accompaniment to a sweet nylon or satin lace trimmed babydoll. The pictured piece is from Betsey Johnson, and is a pleated chiffon babydoll.

Camisole
Of course, you don't have to wear a gown or dress type piece of lingerie at all. There's no reason why you can't simply wear a nice pair of panties to bed, perhaps teamed with a nice light camisole. Plenty of women choose to sleep in panty / cami combos, they tend to be light, comfortable and there's still plenty of lingerie fabric to enjoy in the night.

Nylon camisoles are an excellent investment for a man who likes panties and would like to enjoy the soft embrace of nylon and satin, and if you don't own one as yet, then you're in for a world of enjoyment. Olga camisoles are an excellent brand, and though most of them are now termed as being vintage pieces for reasons best known to Olga, I'd recommend purchasing one if you happen to be lucky enough to find one. Like Olga panties, they are well made, comfortable and trimmed to feminine perfection.

What do you sleep in at the moment? What's your favorite piece of night time lingerie?

Buttons




Being at one time a teacher of clothing and textiles, fabrics and sewing; the topic of buttons had been a research topics of a few of my students. I knew from their research why buttons were on different sides so here is the simple answer about why buttons are on different sides of garments. Just a copy and paste from a web site.

It seems a little odd – and it’s not something that anyone but costumers, cross-dressers, and tailors have occasion to notice much – but men’s shirts and women’s blouses button from different directions.
This might make sense if most women were left-handed and most men were right-handed, but as it is, most people are right-handed. So what’s the deal?
The reason has its roots in both custom and fashion. In the last few centuries of modern dress, both men and women wore more clothes than they do today (which is probably just as well, as they also bathed a lot less than they do today).
Depending on the era, men might wear waistcoats, pantaloons, gaiters and wool jackets. But women’s clothing was far more elaborate, and could consist of a dozen or more garments including petticoats, bloomers, gowns, corsets and bustles.
Thus, especially in middle- and upper-class society, men generally dressed themselves, whereas women did not. Instead, maids and servants might spend an hour or more dressing the lady of the house. Clothiers soon realized that reversing the buttons on women’s clothes made the job faster and easier for all involved. Because men were not dressed by servants, there was no need to reverse the buttons on their garments, and thus a custom was born.
Why has this tradition carried into the modern era, when women can dress themselves, thank you very much? For the same reason that most people still type on the QWERTY keyboard: it’s customary. There’s no real reason the buttons couldn’t be switched, it’s just that nobody has bothered to change a tradition that few people notice or complain about in the first place.

Kisses


A kiss. A cuddle. A stroke of the hair. Hands held. Noses nuzzled. Want to know the state of a relationship? Watch how a couple touches each other—before, during and after sex. As you very well may know, the sexual act is more than just penetration, and can take many different forms. Here are some examples:


• Drunken college co-eds initiate intercourse with a massage on a dorm room bed. They have sex, pass out promptly and one leaves the other early the next morning. Both are relieved.
• Couple in a new relationship feel as if they can't live without each other. When they have sex, they devour each other. Afterward, they stare into one another's eyes, stroke one another's face and breathe one another's breath.
• Long-time lovers prepare for bed with their nighttime ritual. He helps her unfasten her bra. She rubs that sore spot on his back. They make love and fall asleep in the usual position, back to stomach: a spoon.


"Penetration may be the culmination," says Dr. Dorree Lynn, author of Sex For Grownups, "but sex is a process with a beginning, middle and end," with touch playing an important role throughout.
Before sex, you touch someone initially to let them know they are desired. The clumsy massage. The hand across the table. The grooming of a wayward combover. From their response, you know how to proceed. Holding Hands Is Ridiculously Good For You
During the act, of course, touch creates arousal and, ultimately, brings about the orgasm.
Afterward, touch completes the act, winding you down as it wound you up. In your vulnerability, you lay in each other's arms. Fingers slowly caress as bodies regain equilibrium. As you drift asleep, toes touch toes. The connection is not broken.
"Touching lets you know that your partner is involved with you, and that you're not just two genitals that have done their thing," says Dr. Lynn. "For women, touching is validation that she is more than a receptacle."

Warm Feet and Orgasms


Did you know…
Women are more likely to orgasm if their feet are warm.
Scientists say that a woman will be 30% more likely to have an orgasm if her feet are warm. As a woman I can attest: Cold feet in bed are a distraction and warmed feet are a luxury. So men, think about -

• massaging your partner’s feet with warm oil as part of your foreplay
• cozying her feet in a heated microwaveable massage wrap
• pre-heat her foot of the bed with the heating pad.
• or surprise her with a new ’sex toy’ – a pair of those soft and warm microfiber fuzzy socks.
There’s another aspect that’s even more significant than any of these suggestions: When you pamper your lover it opens her heart deepening the emotional intimacy, which allows her to relax more into her sexuality.
But, here’s the thing:
When you routinely pamper her in the same ways, it becomes more ‘routine’ and less ‘pampering.’ So, get creative. Think about what else would add to her comfort and enjoyment: a new scented massage lotion, fur mitten, relaxing music, a fuzzy throw, warmed room, decadent chocolate snack…
And, when you routinely pamper her in new, innovative ways, anticipation is added to the mix – a super aphrodisiac!

Tasteful Teddies


One of my personal favorite pieces of lingerie, the teddy, is often overlooked for more run of the mill lingerie, like bras and panties. One piece lingerie sets seem to have gone the way of the one piece swimsuit, but why?

A teddy, for the uninitiated, is a body suit like item of lingerie that is slid into like a pair of panties and rises up the body to cover the bosom. Some teddies are designed to help shape the body into a lovely female form, others are less restrictive.

If you look at a retailer like Yandy.com, you'll come across a whole range of teddies with bits hacked out of them. Teddies that expose the midriff, the sides of the stomach, the belly button, in other words, teddies that largely defy the purpose of the teddy, which is to present the body in an alluring fashion without giving away all its secrets. I would not advise the average lingerie wearing male to invest in such pieces as they are as unlikely to flatter the figure as they are to feel good when worn. If the point of wearing lingerie is to feel good in it, then why hack the bulk of the garment away? Inquiring minds want to know!

Finding a teddy that has some measure of class about it is becoming increasingly difficult these days, but all hope should not be lost. It is still possible to discover teddies that don't make the wearer look as if they aspire to being a lady of the night. Here are two samples, culled from the depths of the Internet.

The pictured teddy is from Twenga, and I feel that it is a rather charming piece of lingerie. The crochet gives it something of a homely feel, which contrasts nicely with the blue frou frou trim and the overall tone of the garment, which is alluring in the extreme. Who knew that a series of knots could create something so terribly charming?

Antecedote


Q: Why are condoms transparent?
A: So that sperms can at least enjoy the scene even if their entry is ...
Restricted!


Signboard outside a prostitute's house:
Married MEN not allowed. We serve the needy, not the greedy...


New AIDS awareness slogan:
Try different positions with the same woman instead of same position with different women.

Why is Sex like shaving?
Well, because no matter how well you do it today...
tomorrow you'll have to do it again...


Q: Why do 90% gals have left boob bigger than right?
A: Because 90% boys are right handed.


Q: What is the difference between a PANTY & a STAGE CURTAIN?
A: When you pull down the STAGE CURTAIN, the show is over, but when
you pull down the PANTY.....
it is SHOWTIME!

Cruel ?

Need Eyeglasses?


Birthday


i wish i could celebrate my birthday with you

underwear VS panties


I have a tattoo, actually I have 3 tattoos. My first was a butterfly, I just had to get because it was valentine's day when I got it and I realized then I was headed to a divorce, butterfly= freedom. My second tat is of a Celtic knot in the shape of a heart. My dream is to see Scotland, especially the castles of Scotland. One day that dream will come true. Third tat I have is of a pink pantie. The reason I have the pink pantie is because I love guys in panties but that is not what I tell those who ask about the tat. One day a colleague of mine asked about it recently, she called it underwear. I just smiled and nodded. It seemed as if she was afraid to use the word pantie. I don't know why women won't acknowledge the name of the garment for what they are panties. It seems it is a difficult word for women to use when referring to this garment but not for the guys. To me it just seemed strange a garment I wear all the time, I refer to as panties why can't other women use the word.

Just another thought after looking at the Fruit of the Loom advertisement, panties VS underwear does it make a difference? The picture is my pantie atttoo.

underwear for every man


I have been trying to get back to this blog for days now, if not weeks, but with school back in session it seems my life has been taken over by my profession. I am a Teacher Librarian at a middle school. As a librarian I get to look at the mail as it comes into the library. I happened to pick up the Sports Illustrated NFL Preview issue. I like to read a little about sports so I can at least know and understand what is happening in the world of sports.


Anyway as I was flipping through the magazine I came across an advertisement for Fruit of the Looms. The ad caption is underwear for every man. I had to smile and laugh because I know a few guys that Fruit of the Looms aren't the underwear for all men! But I also know guys who wear panties but keep boxers around. Even my own pantie guy loves panties but when it comes to work wears boxers because he feels if his work crew found out he wear panties there might be a revolt or a lack of respect. Anyway take a look at Sports Illustrated are Fruit of the Loom the underwear for all men?

Joke of the Year


Two women were sitting quietly together,
minding their own business.


LOL

5 Ways to Have Sex Without Having Sex

There are times in life that something happens when you can't have sex with your partner. Pregnancy, postpartum, injury, or even when you have your period ... if you aren't into sex when Aunt Flo is around.

That's when you have to get creative. You can have sex without technically having the traditional definition of sex.

And dare I say it's sometimes even better than sex! Why?

Because you are still engaged, still connected, still doing something passionate together. Sometimes penetration is overrated. And sometimes having sex without having sex is a kinky way to switch things up a bit in your love den. Here are five ways to do it ....

1. Masturbate together. If one of you cannot do the deed, the other one can still take matters into their own hands while the other is watching. If you can both masturbate together, then go for it! Have you ever seen your partner reach orgasm while you were just an innocent onlooker? It's hot. I highly suggest you try it sometime. One time, he can do it. Then the next time, you can.

2. Have oral sex. Oral isn't just the appetizer to sex -- it can be the whole meal. And I don't know about you, but I love when my man takes his time downtown. Like double-digit minutes kind of time. And if you didn't get the male memo already, he likes you to spend some time down there. It doesn't matter who is getting or giving oral, what matters is that it is done with that ravenous lust you had when you first started getting it on.

3. Let your hands and mouth roam. Kissing too often falls victim in long-term relationships. Pop a mint, make it fresh, and make out. Kiss his neck, lick his nipples, nibble on his ear, squeeze his butt -- pretend it's prom night and you had a pact not to do it in the limo but you still had to steam up the windows.

4. Watch a sexy movie together. If you can't do it, the next best thing is watching other people doing it. It will still get your loins hot and your partner will be right there next to you, getting all hot and bothered, too. Take mental notes and reenact the scene when sex gets the green light.

5. Write down a fantasy and read to each other. Words can be an aphrodisiac ... especially words written by your mate. Especially carefully chosen words that describe sexual acts they want to do with you. Explore your kinky side, even if the naughtiness will only be a fantasy. It's always hot to hear and express those dirty desires.


Have you tried any of these? How do you have sex without having sex?

Why Men Love Dirty Talk




1. He doesn't expect it.
"I think the reason I like it is it goes against the stereotype we learn at young age that women are innocent little creatures who would never deign to think about sex. On some level that's why I like porn too: here are women who not only like sex, but are willing to do it with a relative stranger for the whole world to see."


2. It shows self-confidence.
"Dirty talk speaks strongly to self-confidence. A woman who is comfortable talking dirty is going to be less sexually inhibited and it's that confidence in bed that I find most attractive. And a woman who is more confident will also be less embarrassed about asking for what she wants, making it easier for me to do what I know she likes. But it's the confidence thing that's a real turn on."


3. It makes him feel special.
"I think it's like a secret flash of skin, or the nipple across your arm. Selected exhibitionism. She's treating you to something not everyone gets to see. Something that could get her in trouble. And you're the one who gets it."


4. It heightens the experience.
"Whether through role playing, acknowledgment, or conversation, talking dirty exposes the vulnerability and intimacy of sex. It confirms that a partner is completely in the moment, and has surrendered to the uninhibited energy that feed toe curling, hair pulling, neck biting worthy sex."


5. It's encouraging.
"It lets me know, or makes me think, she is as into the moment as I am. It's a sign of approval that what I'm doing is working, and gives me encouragement to push our boundaries. It speaks directly to my animal brain and takes ordinary making love and turns it into hot monkey love. My wife of 23 years is normally quiet in bed, and often I will "suggest" exact phrases for her to say. Sometimes it's a starting point for her to expand upon, more often she repeats it verbatim and sounds convincingly sincere. I would LOVE her to be more talkative in bed in general, and REALLY LOVE if she would use explicit language."

Do you like talking dirty in the bedroom? Leave a comment.

Is this true, for you?


When most bra wearing humans think about brassieres, they think about support, comfort, picking one that doesn’t dig into their shoulders painfully, ones they won’t accidentally fall out of, ones that flatter the figure. But there are some bra wearing humans for whom the mundane applications of brassiere wearing are irrelevant. There are some for whom a bra is not just an item of clothing, but a fashion accessory that says, Yes! I Dare!
I disagree with the writer of that hub page. I don't purchase bras solely for the purpose of support or comfort. The bras I purchase are sexy, sensual and erotic. But I do also have ugly bras that i wear when i want just comfort and support but they are not at all sexy, at least not in my mind.

the pictures are of my lingerie, i wear daily
so what do you think?

Underground Railroad
















Evening,
This will be the last post of the class I was taking, African Americans, slavery and education of free slaves. todays bus trip took us to a couple of slave graveyards ( flag markers). Then the last stop on the bus trip was a stop on the underground railroad. It is unusual for anyone to have a marker of the underground railroad. The routes of the underground railroad was never marked for fear of retribution.

I am glad I took this class even though on many class days I didn't get home until very late. I also learned that growing up in the north (NJ/NY) I didn't know of segregated schools but people of my same age went to segregated schools in Virginia. Life was different north and south of the Mason/Dixon line.
Now to wait for the fall classes to be listed, I want to take the next class on the civil war.

New Bed


I get a new bed today, it is quite expensive, I got sticker shock when I saw the cost of new matress and boxspring. Its been so long since I purchased a bed, I couldnt believe it.
But I did it! I also purchased a head and foot board to go along with it. I was tired of my bed looking like it was still at the show room.
So now I am waiting for the delivery. When it is all set up I will post a picture of it.

Monday, the place gets a new coat of paint. I am so unsure of colors but I hope the one I selected will transition nicely from the living area to the kitchen/dining area. It will take some time to get everything together and in place. I don't want to rush to make purchases then realize I don't like what I have purchased.

I thought I had phone service, only to plug the phone into the wall and realize I don't have any service. No longer does a repairman come out to check the line, I need to do that, if i ask for a repairman from the phone company to come out, it is a additional cost. When did customers become the repair person? So now I hope I can check out the phone myself to find out if it is the house wiring or the wiring coming into the town house! I was even told if it is raining don't do anything, damn when did I become the repair person?

the bed is here now, now to assemble and check out the phone service
that is my new bed, i love it. this week the place gets painted a beautiful lavendar color for the bedroom.

Pantie Luv




Today was a day that has been planned then postponed, then planned again and postponed, today it happened. We are both busy with our work day, there are times its impossible to take time off from work. What is so cool he is so understanding about my work, how important it is to me, a part of who I am. Just as his work is a part of him.

I can't say I l__e him, then it would definitely put a burden on our relationship. My pantie luv is a guy I would want to come home to after a day at school, we chat everyday, some days as early as 5:30 in the morning. Other days not until 7 am and still other days not at all. When we don't talk I miss his voice and conversation. I can't call his cell phone to hear his voice because he doesn't leave a message when you call to leave a message. We chat about everything, you name the topic we have chatted about it. There are some topics we don't discuss for example when it comes to hockey not at all, just the same for NASCAR. Its not something I don't know about but as I expressed to him, how can continually making left hand turns be so fascinating. I am certain there is strategy for all sports but making left hand turns for how many laps??? it is something I would love to try, going over 100 miles/hour would be so cool but for how many laps?.

But what is really cool by looking at him you would never know that he reads. His profession wouldn't lend itself to think he reads books! or that he, like me loves to listen to Celtic and country music. When I found out, I said to myself one more thing we have in common. We share books even at 5:30 am or at 4 pm in the afternoon as we are driving home. I don't know many guys who read for pleasure. Today we were together, we chatted more then played. That was why we were meeting today, to have fun together, play hard play easy in panties and lingerie. I love it when he models for me. He modeled a outfit today that as we were having lunch I thought he should have had his white stockings on with a garter belt. Next time the same outfit with stockings and garter belt. There is always a next time, this relationship is already 4 years old. He accepts me for who I am baggage and all. He has become a fan of Ebay. He makes purchases for himself and for me as well. I never had anyone do that for me. We have a trusting relationship a private relationship that so few know about. Neither of us share it with anyone, for one trying to tell anyone that I have a guy that loves to be in panties and lingerie, my friends would think I am crazy, a guy in panties! Ohhh, he looks so hot, hard nipples I get to lick and caress, a butt so smooth and round and a c__k that Is. He wouldn't mention his love of panties and lingerie to any of his friends or that we meet to play hard sexually. He is the boss and his crews would be astonished if they found out about his panties and possibly he would lose respect and the boss relationship from his guys at work. Then when it comes to the sexual playing who would understand because we aren't a vanilla couple by any means. Our society isn't accepting of guys in panties and possibly our hard rough sexual play.


Today was a good day. We played hard for several hours, had lunch, then parted. He did have to get back to work, especially if a new housing development wanted to be online or watch the Stanley cup playoffs. lol I guess we didnt have enough time to chat today because he called a couple more times today. We can talk for hours, but I think I mentioned that fact already.
enjoy your evening, N

cute bag


I was sent a email with lots of bags, I am not certain what country has such cute bags to give away when you make a purchase.

I have gone green myself. When I go to the grocery store I bring my reusable bags with me. I have a couple of pink ones in honor of breast cancer research but the other few are green with the store's logo on them. I havent gotten into the hang of using reusable bags when I go to the mall, but if I get a cute bag I am certain I will use it to bring home my mall purchases. It might be tacky in some stores!
Now isnt that a rather handsome bag to carry home your groceries in?

thong thief caught

April 16, 2010 - 10:43

THE ASSOCIATED PRESS

EAST LANSING, Mich. - Police say a 19-year-old Michigan State University student who pilfered 79 pairs of women's panties faces possible charges.

East Lansing Police Sgt. Florene McGlothian-Taylor tells The Detroit News all 79 items were thongs. McGlothian-Taylor says the suspect, who has not been named, was arrested April 7 after another student saw him taking underwear from a dryer in a dorm basement laundry room.


Police have been investigating since March 22, when someone reported the theft of 15 pairs of panties from the same laundry.

The man told police it was a prank and denied having a sex addiction. Police released the student.

McGlothian-Taylor says one victim wants to file charges but that Ingham County prosecutors must decide if he will be charged.

orgasm

Do guys have multiple orgasms??

History











Evening,
I have been here several times over the past day or 2 but just couldn't find the energy to leave a message. Back to school after Spring Break has been tough, a new home, everything in different places then where it was in my little apartment. Can't seem to get back into routine. And it has been hot, wait not just hot but HOT. Its a few days into April and the temperature at my school was in the 90's today! What happened to spring and gradually getting into the heat of the summer months. Even the library at school where my office is had been extremely warm. Teaching in a enclosed environment is tough and not just that but the building itself has its temperature regulated centrally with the rest of the schools in the district. So I am certain there is a school where it has been extremely cold. For me it is easier to put clothes on when chilled then removing clothing when its too hot. Which isn't possible at school.

Its Tuesday and I just remembered I will be beginning my professional development class tomorrow. The county I teach in is rich in history. And tomorrow I begin a class on black history beginning with slavery. I love local history. Virginia is so rich in history from the beginning in the 1400's to the present. Right now I am watching and listening to the History channel, the program is about how each state got its shape. I always wondered why all the states don't look alike, 'squares'. It's cool to know just how each state got its unique look. But from 30,000 feet you don't see the boundaries just beautiful country.

My life has been stange lately. I won't go into the fact that I thought I was locked out yesterday! Out of my new home! Or that when I came out of the store and couldn't find my car especially with it right in front of me. Go ahead smile, I am certain its happened to you. I got scared!

Anyway, I am going to put lunch together and pack a snack for class tomorrow afternoon. Enjoy the rest of your night and your tomorrow. I do hope it is cooler then today.

How to Put Together Stunning Lingerie Outfits


Wearing one or two pieces of lingerie is fun, but if you love lingerie, you're eventually going to start wanting to wear whole outfits. This is where this hub comes in, a guide for men who want to know how to put together top-to-toe lingerie outfits. This hub is an interesting one for me to write, because in my experience, men who love lingerie have a talent for putting together stunning lingerie outfits using a range of lingerie. So my first piece of advice is simply to trust your instincts. If you love pretty feminine things you probably already have a fairly good eye for fashion. Experiment and have fun!

The stock standard usual 'lingerie outfit' is one that is purchased as a set. You'll often find bra and panty sets that come with a matching garter belt, and if you pick up some stockings, well, then you've got a top-to-toe lingerie outfit just waiting to be worn. Likewise, bustiers quite often come with g strings and garter belts, with some bustiers having straps attached and acting as garters as well as bustiers What I'm trying to say is that if you're nervous about putting together a lingerie outfit for the first time, an 'off the shelf' outfit will create a nice look that you know will match.

However I have noticed that many men who love lingerie are not content to stay inside the boxes that lingerie designers set out for them. They happily mix and match pieces from various outfits to great dramatic effect. Here's a quick guide to breaking the rules when it comes to lingerie outfits.

Some fashionistas will tell you that the bra and panties must match. However, that is not always true, and sooner or later, you're going to come to a threshold in your lingerie wearing life where you're tempted to break that rule. Here's how you do it.

If you're going to break this rule, break it in one of two ways. Either have one bold piece, it can be either the panties or the bra, and then have the other be a neutral color to compliment. For example, if you have a bright red satin floral bra trimmed with pink lace, you can wear plain red satin panties without looking as if you've been dragged through a lingerie rack backwards. On the other hand, if you have a bright red satin floral trimmed bra and you put on some ratty old black cotton panties, the look won't be coherent.

Bold mismatches can also work if you use other elements to tie the outfit together. If we take the bright red satin floral trimmed with pink lace bra for instance, and put on some brilliant lime green panties, then you can still create an outfit that looks coherent by wearing a camisole that features both green and pink in it.

Alternatively, scrap the camisole idea and wear a pink / red garter belt with either green, red, or dark stockings. In an outfit like this, you've broken all the normal rules of lingerie wearing, but you've created a new outfit that works as a whole. The secret to creating coherent designs out of mismatched pieces is to echo themes in other elements of your outfit.

See how easy that was? If you buy a lot of lingerie (which plenty of men who wear lingerie do) you can start to break down and mix and match lingerie sets, creating vibrant and impressive looks that never so much as sparkled in the eyes of the designers who made the sets. Lingerie is about fun and self expression, so don't be afraid to break rules. You are the master of your lingerie destiny.


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Sex Toys and Accessories


If the phrase “sex toys” makes you blush, you’re not alone. The sex toy world can be very intimidating to women who’ve yet to explore its many options. Not only is there a huge assortment of items to choose from, but some pieces just look downright scary. Wait, you want me to put that where? No way!
Of course, the main purpose for most of these naughty items is to help a woman experience maximum pleasure, and we’re all for that. But if that’s all you think they’re good for, think again. “My philosophy is that sex toys and accessories are like lip gloss – you don't need them, but they certainly make you feel happier, sexier and more feminine,” says Dana B. Myers, founder of Booty Parlor Inc., a sexy online boutique with fans like Angelina Jolie, Carmen Electra, and Jennifer Love Hewitt.
Read 8 Biggest Sex Myths
According to New York-based sex therapist, Dr. Joy Davidson, there are plenty of reasons why sexy toys and accessories can be a smart investment for all sexually active women:
• “When you buy items that are designed for no other purpose than to give sexual pleasure,” says Dr. Joy, “you’re making a statement to yourself that says, ‘I’m sexy, I’m desirable, and I’m not a passive participant in sex. In fact, my partner is not the only source of my pleasure – I am, too.’”
• “When you learn how to pleasure yourself and what type of stimulation works for you, you can pass that information on to your partner and teach him what works. It’s silly to expect someone else to get you off if you can’t do it yourself.”
• “Nowhere is it written that sex is supposed to be dull, boring and simple. And nowhere does it say you can only use what’s attached to your body to give and receive pleasure. Sex is just another aspect of life where we can accessorize!”
• “There are toys being made today that can affect you in a way that no human being can. Their capacity for speed, intensity and consistency of motion are things that a human simply cannot replicate. You’re doing yourself a disservice by not trying these toys and experiencing the pleasure they can bring.”
Convinced? We are! So now it’s on to the next step – navigating the sex toy world. Whether you’re a first-timer or an experienced sex-toy vet, here, according to our experts, are the six items every woman should have in her toy chest:
1. The classic vibrator
It’s basic, yes, but oh-so-necessary. You can go for “The Rabbit,” the friendly vibrator made famous by the Sex and the City gals, or try something different. Dr. Joy suggests getting one that’s adjustable in speed and intensity, makes little noise and focuses primarily on clitoral stimulation. Dana B. Myers recommends The Champ ($36). “It has a silent pitter-patter thump that will deliver a total knockout orgasm,” she says.
2. A couple’s vibrator
“For women who are not usually orgasmic during intercourse, using a little vibrator during penetration can turn the tide on that,” says Dr. Joy. When you're with your partner, it's best to use a smaller gadget that you can press against yourself and doesn’t get in the way. Myers says her best-selling couple’s vibe is the Aurora ($68). With 16 different ways to please, the Aurora “gives the additional C-spot pleasure a woman needs to help reach orgasm,” says Myers. “And, your partner will enjoy the vibrating sensations, which will enhance his pleasure, too.”
3. A G-spot wand
If you don’t like to vibe, or if you just want to switch it up, Dr. Joy suggests a G-spot wand, like the NJOY Pure Wand ($108). Made of 316-grade stainless steel (the same material used in hip replacements!), this eco-friendly wand, and others like it, make penetration more substantial thanks to their curved design. “You can warm them up or cool them down,” says Dr. Joy.
4. Crotchless panties
As women, we’re fully aware of the power of sexy lingerie. Myers suggests taking your collection to a whole other level with crotchless panties, like the Naughty Ballerina Crotchless Bikini ($26). “The peek-a-boo element of this seductive bikini makes for very exciting possibilities,” says Myers.
5. Arousal boosters
Whether solo or with a partner, we all need a little help sometimes. Other times, well maybe we just want to kick things up a notch. The good news is that suddenly, there are plenty of products on the market designed to enhance a woman’s pleasure – including several that are natural and/or hormone-free. One that caught our eye: Zestra (box of 12 packets, $49.95), which was specifically developed to “improve arousal, desire and satisfaction” for women. Applied topically, this blend of essential oils and extracts claims to increase sensitivity in minutes – and the effects can last for up to 45 minutes.
6. A pair of “hooker heels”
Sure, they’re not “toys,” but a pair of ultra-sexy high heels can do wonders. “These shouldn’t be the designer heels you wear outside,” says Dr. Joy. “What I'm talking about are slutty shoes you wouldn’t wear anywhere else because they’re so over-the-top sexy. They can put you in the mood when you’re alone, or they can help you anticipate a hot night with your guy. And, of course, men love super-sexy heels.” Looking for just the right thing? Opt for something in classic clear lucite, like these Juliet G Stiletto Heel Platform ($51.99).


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Been There... Done

An attorney arrived home late, after a very tough day trying to get a stay of execution.
His last minute plea for clemency to the governor had failed and he was feeling worn out and depressed.
As soon as he walked through the door at home, his wife started on him about, 'What time of night to be getting home is this? Where have you been? Dinner is cold and I'm not reheating it'.
And on and on and on. Too shattered to play his usual role in this familiar ritual, he poured himself a shot of whiskey and headed off for a long hot soak in the bathtub, pursued by the predictable sarcastic remarks as he dragged himself up the stairs.
While he was in the bath, the phone rang. The wife answered and was told that her husband's client, James Wright, had been granted a stay of execution after all. Wright would not be hanged tonight.
Finally realizing what a terrible day he must have had, she decided to go up stairs and give him the good news..
As she opened the bathroom door, she was greeted by the sight of her husband, bent over naked, drying his legs and feet.
'They're not hanging Wright tonight,' she said.
He whirled around and screamed, 'FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WOMAN, DON'T YOU EVER STOP?!'

In one of those moods! LOL

Spring isnt Summer yet

Evening,
It has been warm this past week. I knew a couple of days in the 50's brings out the summer clothing, short shorts and flip flop sandals! I don't own flip flips no matter the color or style. I just don't find where there is a appropriate place to wear them. Not just that I feel that I have ugly toes. On one foot have such ugly scars from surgery and the other foot the toes are just ugly. If asked what part of my body I would like to replace it would be my feet first then a breast reduction.
But anyway enough about me. People need to purchase a mirror. And before they leave home check themselves out in the mirror.
I always do, I am so aware of my appearance. If I don't feel comfortable in my clothing, I don't wear the clothing.

Spring and Valentine's Day

Evening,
I posted articles I found in the news. I found them to be interesting. A roll on hormone to increase your sex drive, lipstick that changes color depending on the mood of the person wearing it, and foods that increase your sexual awareness. You would think that tomorrow is Valentine's Day not the day before Spring officially arrives. But maybe it is valentine's day, I have been awaken each morning this week with birds chirping loudly. Soon we will have the next generation of birds fluttering around! LOL

Once again my pantie luv asked what I was wearing this morning. I was in white all day. White lacy bra and white panties, he gets off knowing what I wear. I have been taking pictures of myself for him. He loves knowing that most of my lingerie is sheer, lacy and embroidered. I find those materials to be so sensual and sexy. I also told him about a colleague of mine. We were talking today, waiting for a student to come back from lunch, she had on a blouse that had alittle tie that tied the blouse closed, but today it was loosely tied and I noticed her bra. You all know how much I like lace and sheer fabrics. This other teacher's black bra was just that, at least what I could see of it. I so wanted to ask her where she bought that bra. I have been in J C Penney's and Kohl's and they didn't have such a sheer, lace bra. I probably need to get to other department stores at a bigger mall. Its time to wake up the buyers for department stores, we need new colors, styles and fabrics in the lingerie department, especially in the larger sizes, I am not a itty bitty.

You might even now my pantie luvs reaction but once again he tells me to go to Ebay. But he also knows I need to touch and feel and actually see the bras and panties. Its sensual and sexy.

Foods to Put You in the Mood


Throughout history, food has been linked to good health and increased sexual desire. Casanova, the famous Venetian womanizer, was known to munch on oysters, while honey was supposedly Aphrodite’s nectar du jour when it came to improving sexual performance. Sure, a romantic candlelit dinner can do wonders when it comes to creating a relaxed, intimate, sensual mood, but the foods we consume also appear to have a direct correlation to increased sexual appetite. According to researchers, the taste, smell and appearance of food can also act as powerful aphrodisiacs.
Whether you’re looking to rev things up with a new guy or spice up an established relationship, try indulging in some of these high-powered sexy edibles; all ten have been shown to kick-start your libido, revive sexual performance and enhance overall health.
Almonds
Historically, almonds have long been a symbol of fertility. A healthy source of protein, they're a natural energy booster, which, in turn, can increase in sexual drive. Additionally, the scent is said to excite women, so it’s not surprising that almond oil is a common ingredient in soaps and lotions. The almond also has roots in the Bible, where Samson wooed Delilah with aromatic almond branches.
Asparagus
This erotic vegetable may be the quintessential libido booster as it contains high levels of vitamin E, which aids in producing sex hormones. After being dubbed an aphrodisiac during the Renaissance, asparagus was later banned from the dining tables of most convents. The Vegetarian Society suggests “eating asparagus for three days for the most powerful effect.”
Avocado
It’s not surprising that the Aztecs called the avocado tree, ahuacatl or "testicle tree” based on how much its fruit resembles the male body part. This green tropical marvel also contains vitamin B6, which increases male hormones, and potassium, which aids in regulating the female thyroid gland. Both B6 and potassium are reported to increase libido.
Bananas
Its suggestive shape aside, this popular fruit also contains bromelain, an enzyme which aids in boosting male libido. On top of this, bananas contain potassium and B vitamins, such as riboflavin, which raise the body's overall energy levels.
Celery
Celery may not be the first food that comes to mind when it comes to increasing sexual desire. But this crunchy, low-cal veggie contains an odorless hormone called androsterone, which, when released through male perspiration, is known to increase female sexual arousal.
Chillis
Hot, spicy chilli peppers contain capsaicin, a chemical known to release endorphins and create a feeling of happiness and pleasure. Chillis can increase blood flow and heart rate, and they also stimulate nerve endings, resulting in increased sexual urges.
Chocolate
Dubbed the “love chemical,” the Aztec emperor Montezuma was said to consume large amounts of chocolate in an effort to enhance his sexual prowess before entering his harem. During modern times, researchers have attributed chocolate’s aphrodisiac properties to the stimulant phenylethylamine, which creates a general sense of well-being, similar to an endorphin rush.
Chocolate also releases the amino acid tryptophan, which produces the neurotransmitter serotonin. Known as "the feel-good brain hormone," serotonin helps to stabalize mood and diminish anxiety, all great calming aides that ultimately boost sexual desire.
Figs
Originally from Syria – and allegedly Cleopatra’s fave food – this ancient, erotic, fleshy fruit replicates female genitalia in its appearance. Figs are high in amino acids, which increase libido and boost sexual stamina. In some Southern European countries wedding guests toss figs instead of rice, to encourage fertility.
Ginger
Reports on the effects of ginger date back as far as Chinese philosopher, Confucius (500 B.C.), who was said to never be without the tangy herb. It is also referred to in the Kama Sutra as a powerful aphrodisiac. Fresh ginger root stimulates your circulatory system, improves blood flow to sexual organs, and contains libido-lifting Vitamin C, zinc and magnesium.
Oysters
Bearing a strong resemblance to female genitalia, oysters are widely-regarded as a powerful aphrodisiac – and for good reason. High in the mineral zinc, which contributes to testosterone production, these slippery mollusks also contain D-aspartic acid, a powerful chemical that triggers the release of sex hormones.

Lipstick Claims to Read Women's Desires


A new lipstick on the market claims to change colour to indicate a woman's level of arousal.
It's called New Mood Swing Emotionally Activated Lip Gloss by Too Faced, and according to the product description, it changes from pale pink to crimson red when the wearer becomes aroused.
“Are you in love, jealous, angry, happy or hot and bothered? Your lips will tell the tale and allow you to express yourself like never before,” reads the product description on ASOS.com, a beauty shopping site.
It alleges to do this by reacting with a woman's body chemistry.
The product doesn't explain the science behind mood lipstick any further than that. The '70s phenomenon mood rings, however, simply function as thermometers, changing colour with the body's temperature.
Reactions to the gloss have been mixed.
An anonymous review from the Sun in the UK says it works perfectly, finding her lips went pale when looking at images of men she wasn't attracted to, and dark red when she looked at celebrity crushes, like True Blood's Stephen Moyer.
“After just seconds of puckering up to him on my screen, I looked like I'd necked nine pints of O Negative,” reads the review.
Others are less than impressed.
Adam Frucci, a writer for the science and technology blog Gizmodo, expressed doubts about the product's legitimacy.
“And even if it does work, I'm not sure what the benefit is. I mean, do you ladies out there really want to show your cards that obviously,” wrote Frucci.
Kate Harding, a writer for Salon.com, worries the lipstick might give men the wrong idea.
“I do worry that a marketing strategy like this (tongue-in-cheek though it may be) reinforces the pernicious myth that figuring out whether a woman wants to have sex is some daunting puzzle far beyond the intellectual and emotional capabilities of the average Joe,” she wrote “It's actually pretty simple. If you have any doubt, ask.”

Coming to an Underarm Stick Near You: a Lotion for Low Sex Drive

By By Rob Waters and Simeon Bennett


Eli Lilly & Co., the maker of the impotence pill Cialis, bought exclusive rights from Australia’s Acrux Ltd. to an underarm testosterone lotion called Axiron for men with limited sex drive due to low levels of the hormone.

Indianapolis-based Lilly will pay Acrux a $50 million license fee plus $3 million when manufacturing assets are transferred, the companies said Tuesday in a statement. Acrux, based in Melbourne, Australia, may earn $87 million more if U.S. regulators approve the drug for marketing, $195 million in commercial milestone payments as well as royalty payments on future sales, the companies said.

Acrux filed a marketing application with the Food and Drug Administration in January, seeking to enter a global market for testosterone therapies worth more than $1 billion a year. A study in 2006 found that at least one third of American men older than 45 years have low testosterone. The problem can sap sex drive and cause impotence, osteoporosis and memory loss, according to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn.

If approved, the product “could provide a new treatment option for men suffering from low testosterone,” said Bryce Carmine, president of Lilly’s Bio-Medicines.

Results of a clinical trial released in September showed Axiron normalized testosterone levels in 84 percent of men after four months.

Acrux, which has never made a profit, expects to report net income of between $40 million and $44 million in the financial year ending June, it said in a statement. The company, which was spun off from Melbourne’s Monash University a decade ago and has 30 employees, plans to make its first dividend payments in 2011.

Acrux, which has raised $50 million from investors since its initial public offering in 2004, won’t be asking investors for more money to develop its other products, Richard Treagus, the company’s chief executive officer, said in a telephone interview Tuesday.

“We’ve got no intention to go back to the market and raise funds,” he said. “This licensing deal with Lilly certainly strengthens our balance sheet. It establishes a strong basis for what I believe is future sustainable earnings.”

The company’s agreement with Lilly is the largest licensing deal ever stuck by an Australian biotech company, and is a “new high water mark for Australian biotech” in terms of its size, said David Blake, co-editor of Bioshares, a weekly report on Australia’s health-care industry. He owns Acrux shares.

“Our expectation is you’re going to see a whole new range of investors come into the stock, and they’ll look at the stock very differently to how many smaller investors have,” Blake said in a telephone interview. “Those new investors are more likely to be institutional investors who have a different requirement in terms of the quantum of stock that they want to purchase.”

Shopping Over the Weekend


I did go to Winchester to get beautified. Afterwards I went shopping in JCPenney's. Checking out the lingerie department first. I always seem to go to this department first. I walked through the department nothing really caught my eye. There were a few bras that I liked but they had so much padding, I guess for those needing padding they were beautiful. I don't need padding so I didn't make a purchase. Then I wandered around the store, nothing really excited me. I guess being in Florida for a couple of days, I was spoiled and I really want spring to arrive.

It has been suggested to me several times to go to Ebay to shop for lingerie but I really don't like to shop Ebay. I like to look, touch feel the fabrics, really look at the colors. So shopping Ebay doesn't really do anything for me. When I told my pantie luv I have spent upwards of $40.00 and more for a bra he once again mentioned Ebay. To tell the truth, if I like a bra or panties or any lingerie price wouldn't stop me from making that purchase. I like the sexy look and feeling that comes from wearing beautiful bras and panties.

With all the rain lately, I can see the grass and trees beginning there new growth for spring. I even saw a robin red breast as I was driving home from church. Spring is coming alittle more each day. So where are the new colors for the new season. So I am waiting, trying to be patient.

I am attaching another Twisted but Clean 2 cartoon, enjoy it. I did see a movie over the weekend as well, don't ask me if I enjoyed the movie, I only saw the first few minutes and the last few minutes! The movie cost less then a hotel room at least! LOL

twisted but clean 1

its one of those days! for me

Florida

I am in Florida, actually in Lady Lake near The Villages. Its has been warm compared to Front Royal. I need to remind my family and myself to drink water. The temperature difference can wreck havoc on our systems. It is about a 30 degree difference between the 2 places. It was important to get here (Florida), my sons hadn't seen their Nana in several months and they got to catch up with their cousins as well. Definitely two different families. But it was good to visit. I am now trying to get the keys to the car so I can go to Kohl's, its on the same road as the hotel, so it should be a simple drive for me without being driven there. I need to get a black bra. The one
I have is an underwire and the wire broke in the washer. Since I am in Florida it was strange to walk into Bealls (?) and see all the spring colors and everything is so different with prints on shirts and all the houseware stuff.
Maybe it is possible to bring some springtime back to Front Royal! I am off to get keys, enjoy your day, it looks very bright outside.

Olympics

I have been watching the Olympics, especially curling and hockey, both men and women. Even tonight i have a hockey game on, Go! Islanders. I didn't have a real appreciation for hockey until I went to college in Plattsburgh and watch the Cardinals play and win their division several times. I even played broom ball with the others on my dorm floor. We went traying by 'borrowing' meal trays from the dining hall.
Islanders are beating the Blackhawks 5-2 with 5 minutes left to the game. I think the Islanders need some kind of sticky stuff so they don't lose their sticks.

I have wondered if any hockey players would wear panties under their uniforms! Now that would exciting. They wear so much padding and other items who would notice.

sex philosophy

1. When I was born, I was given a choice: A big dick or a good memory...
I don't remember, what I chose.

2. Your birth certificate is an apology letter from the condom factory.

3. A wife is a sex object. Every time you ask for sex, she objects.

4. Impotence: Nature's way of saying: 'No hard feelings....'

5. There are only two four letter words that are offensive to men:
'don't' and 'stop', unless they are used together.

6. Panties: Not the best thing on earth, but next to the best thing on earth.

7. There are three stages of sex in a man's life: Tri Weekly, Try Weekly, and Try Weakly.

8. Virginity can be cured.

9. Virginity is not dignity, its lack of opportunity.

10. Having sex is like playing bridge...
If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.

11. I tried phone sex once, but the holes in the dialer were too small...

12. Marriage is the only war where you get to sleep with the enemy.

13. Q: What's an Australian kiss?
A: The same thing as a French kiss, only down under.

14. A couple just married were happy with the whole thing.
He was happy with the Hole and she was happy with the Thing........

15. Q: What are the three biggest tragedies in a mans life?
A: Life sucks, job sucks, and the wife doesn't.

16. Q: Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?
A: Breasts don't have eyes.

17. Despite the old saying: 'Don't take your troubles to bed'.
Many men still sleep with their wives!!


laugh and enjoy.

How to Buy Hot Lingerie

I found this to be informative and I love the $109 bra.

http://www.esquire.com/the-side/feature/how-to-buy-lingerie-2009

Sky Diving


I'm not sure American Audiences are ready for this commercial yet!
Fleggaard Holding A/S, through its subsidiaries, markets electronic appliances. The company specializes in selling televisions and radio sets.
Fleggaard Holding is based in Krusaa, Denmark. Just across Germany's northernmost border with Denmark you’ll find an incredible superstore called Fleggaard. There, you can buy everything you need – tubs of gummi bears, cases of wine, industrial strength dishwashing soap – at prices 30% cheaper than you’ll find in Denmark. It is Denmark's Costco, packaged as a German loophole.
The 100+ women do stunts in the air – while free-falling – holding hands to spell out “Half-off on Dishwasher soap at Fleggaard.” You’d be hard-pressed to find a man in Denmark who hasn’t seen and fallen in love with that commercial. It was geared strictly to men. The ad is real!


Here it is:
http://www.m2film.dk/fleggaard/trailer2.swf