Evening,
It has been warm this past week. I knew a couple of days in the 50's brings out the summer clothing, short shorts and flip flop sandals! I don't own flip flips no matter the color or style. I just don't find where there is a appropriate place to wear them. Not just that I feel that I have ugly toes. On one foot have such ugly scars from surgery and the other foot the toes are just ugly. If asked what part of my body I would like to replace it would be my feet first then a breast reduction.
But anyway enough about me. People need to purchase a mirror. And before they leave home check themselves out in the mirror.
I always do, I am so aware of my appearance. If I don't feel comfortable in my clothing, I don't wear the clothing.
Showing posts with label clothing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label clothing. Show all posts
Why?
I don't even know how to begin this, but here it goes. Last night or very early this morning, I was once again talking to my friend from Australia. I am never certain about the time difference. When Steven found out I was still up a 2 am my time, he sent me to bed. Maybe one day I will get to meet him. It makes no difference my nights have been very restless. Lots on the brain, hope by September there will be less to worry about. And yesterday my carpal tunnel started acting up, it has been difficult to dress, so tomorrow it will be the simplest of clothes for me to dress in.
But anyway, the conversation we were having has been one we have been going around and around about for awhile. The issue isn't the typical fetish question, panties, lingerie, socks or any of the others discussed on forums. But the question he asks me is always why can't guys wear whatever they want, when they want, where ever they want. I give him the pat answer, you know the answer its because our societies and culture would have difficultly accepting guys in female clothing. Notice I used the word 'guys'. I am talking about the 100% male all masculine, rugged tough guy. oh maybe not so rugged or tough but you get the idea.
Yes there are guys who want to wear the clothing that makes them feel most comfortable, whatever that clothing is. They want to be able to have all the choices that women have. Not to be limited to just slacks and a shirt! I personally don't understand why a guy would want to wear heels or stockings or dresses or skirts. When I wear those items I behave differently, more feminine or 'lady like'. Which is different then when I am wearing slacks and a blouse. Not to say I leave my 'lady like' behavior at home on those days but I can bend over, climb ladders and all that other stuff without worrying about who can see what! Remember I do teach school.
The question still is the same WHY? why is it that guys can't slip on heels, it has been proven in history that men wore heels way before women took over the fashion, history proves that men have been wearing clothing that resembles skirts or dresses for centuries in the eastern world, when did this become a ladies only fashion trend. Guys were the peacocks through out history, wearing the brightest of colors. At least that has changed over the years. I love seeing the male teachers at school in the their colorful dress shirts. I do compliment the guys on the colors they wear.
So I am game, Why??? can't guys wear whatever they want, when they want, where ever they want? Please give me a history lesson. It's time to have a revolution. The 60's and 70's the age of women's liberation, had women wearing men's clothing, maybe its time we have a men's revolution! A new decade will be here in a few short months 2010, is it time for a revolution?
I am tired of giving the same pat answers, after awhile the pat answer has no meaning, no definition, just rhetoric. Lip service. Help me out, give me another answer to WHY??
But anyway, the conversation we were having has been one we have been going around and around about for awhile. The issue isn't the typical fetish question, panties, lingerie, socks or any of the others discussed on forums. But the question he asks me is always why can't guys wear whatever they want, when they want, where ever they want. I give him the pat answer, you know the answer its because our societies and culture would have difficultly accepting guys in female clothing. Notice I used the word 'guys'. I am talking about the 100% male all masculine, rugged tough guy. oh maybe not so rugged or tough but you get the idea.
Yes there are guys who want to wear the clothing that makes them feel most comfortable, whatever that clothing is. They want to be able to have all the choices that women have. Not to be limited to just slacks and a shirt! I personally don't understand why a guy would want to wear heels or stockings or dresses or skirts. When I wear those items I behave differently, more feminine or 'lady like'. Which is different then when I am wearing slacks and a blouse. Not to say I leave my 'lady like' behavior at home on those days but I can bend over, climb ladders and all that other stuff without worrying about who can see what! Remember I do teach school.
The question still is the same WHY? why is it that guys can't slip on heels, it has been proven in history that men wore heels way before women took over the fashion, history proves that men have been wearing clothing that resembles skirts or dresses for centuries in the eastern world, when did this become a ladies only fashion trend. Guys were the peacocks through out history, wearing the brightest of colors. At least that has changed over the years. I love seeing the male teachers at school in the their colorful dress shirts. I do compliment the guys on the colors they wear.
So I am game, Why??? can't guys wear whatever they want, when they want, where ever they want? Please give me a history lesson. It's time to have a revolution. The 60's and 70's the age of women's liberation, had women wearing men's clothing, maybe its time we have a men's revolution! A new decade will be here in a few short months 2010, is it time for a revolution?
I am tired of giving the same pat answers, after awhile the pat answer has no meaning, no definition, just rhetoric. Lip service. Help me out, give me another answer to WHY??
Good Morning,
VPL or visible pantie lines. Being who I am I dont like to see pantie lines on women. For me I take care in what I look like before walking out the door. I do check myself to be certain everything looks just right. I am not a quick shopper, it takes me forever, to make clothing decisions, it has to be just the right color, fit, style etc. Its time to purchase the correct size, a piece of clothing might be too tight or too small just doesnt look good. Look in the dressing room mirror and purchase a full length mirror for your home. Give yourself that once over critical look and ask yourself do I look good in what i am wearing? I wish more women would take that last minute before leaving the house to check themselves. Do that last minute twirl. I have also learned to wear slips, full and half, (black and white), camisoles, and something new that I recently purchased it wasnt a girdle but a under garment to smooth out all the bumps and lumps our bodies go through as we age. I am not saying I am ancient but I have 3 children, that I gave birth to and breast fed.
Anyway back to VPLs. Over the years I have looked at many guys trying to find that one or more guys that do wear panties. I know you guys are around but you all are so discreet that I havent found you in my neighbor. I want to view and feel your behind when you are wearing panties, slide my hands down the back of your slacks, touching your firm butt knowing you are in panties. So every once in awhile go ahead drag on those worn out jeans and let me see you wearing panties. It would be a treat for me, I am a people watcher.
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