The Black Bra

To wear a black bra, you must be daring. To wear a black bra, you must be bold. In wearing a black bra, you come to understand that although lingerie lies next to your skin, safely tucked away under your outer clothing, it is nevertheless a very real presence. The man who wears a black bra is a man who has mastered the arts of lingerie, he is one with the essential nature of lingerie.

Black lingerie is stylish, timeless and often lasts a great deal longer than lighter colored lingerie which becomes discolored over time and in the wash as dyes from other items of clothing invariably find their way through the aqueous medium in your wash tub and stain pale fabrics a darker color.

Anyone can purchase and wear a black bra, but only the man who has devoted serious time to his study of the nature of lingerie can wear a black bra with total confidence. He knows how the black bra can be hidden for stealth effect, he knows how it can be subtly displayed as a means of lingerie pride, and he knows how it can be shown in all its glory for full effect.

If you happen to be a man who loves lingerie, a black bra is an essential part of your wardrobe, but it is not a part of your wardrobe that you should wear lightly. Many have tried on black bras and many have failed the challenges that come with being a wearer of a black bra.

In order to successfully wear the black bra in a subtle fashion, you must have a deep understanding of the opacity of your outer garments. Is that shirt somewhat translucent under fluorescent lights? Will it give away your secrets if someone takes a picture with a powerful flash? Is there even the remotest possibility that today, somebody will throw a bucket of water over your head, and will your outerwear stand up to the challenge if that happens?

The black bra is perhaps one of the most beauteous pieces of lingerie. It comes in many forms, sometimes soft and padded, sometimes delicate and lacy, sometimes closing at the front, sometimes closing at the back, sometimes with adjustable straps that can be swapped around to form a halter bra. Do not underestimate the potential complexity of the black bra. Respect it, and wield it as you would any other totem of potent femininity.



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Gifts for Me

Happy Weekend!
Its been a long week. It has been the first complete week of school for this school year. The students make an appearance on Tuesday. A few of my students have come by to ask about book club. It was great to see them. What also is great, my school district will not interrupt the 1st day back to school for the presidents address to public school kids. I t will be great to see the students again. You should hear the buzz of the past few days. Bulletin Boards going up, teachers planning, lockers opening and the doors being slammed shut. Its the sound of a quiet school building opening up ready to greet the students. Are we ready for the 1st day no one really knows until the students arrive. Then it is a running start until we reach the end, by looking at the calendar the end is 180 school days away. So lets begin by putting on our track shoes. Oh, don't forget to wear your school spirit wear!!!

I did title this Gifts for Me. I was given a few items on Tuesday. I have been purchasing and mailing panties and lingerie around the world for a couple of years. Money would arrive in my paypal account and I would get an email telling me what they want. I would go shopping, stop by the post office to mail the items. But on Tuesday I was given lacy bold colored panties and a beautiful teddi. I wasn't given any items like this ever. My friend who gave them to me, I have known for a few years now. We met on a pantie forum and have met a couple of times. I get to select items and he allows me to dress him. Panties, stockings, garter belt, bra, slips, teddis, and more. He has many lovely lingerie items. OMy to touch and caress makes me aroused, damn he is a beautiful guy dressed in lingerie. I brought home our lingerie to launder. The only way he gets them back is to plan another meeting. He is the same guy that is 100% masculine, tough and rugged. His birthday is tomorrow, he will get a birthday greeting.
From me to you find yourself a mate that will help you dress in your sexy lingerie and let her dress for you. Then have fun. Fun I won't define you define fun!

Love of Vegetables

I am not a follower of PETA, but love the lingerie and vegetables.

http://www.peta.org/content/standalone/VeggieLove/Default.aspx

Shopping For My Pantie Luv

This week I had time to go shopping for something new. I am always looking for new styles or fabrics in panties. This one afternoon as I was walking toward the store, I happened to call my Pantie Luv, I do call him to arouse him about my shopping trips. It may be mean but I know once I arouse him he will cum for me. When I go shopping, I try to find something he might like in panties, especially new styles. The last time I bought him panties, I purchased the same ones for myself. They were a light pink/blush with ruffles. I knew he would like them because his fetish for panties is out there. I have bought panties for him since I met him. I have also given him my panties, panties that belonged to girlfriends and panties stolen from laundry hampers.

My pantie Luv and I have shopped online together, I am not easily shocked by him. If anything I encourage his lingerie/pantie fetish. For both oursakes, I hope as winter leaves and spring comes new pantie styles, colors and fabrics will make it into our shops.

Fabrics

Panties comes in various fabrics. I will get to style and colors at another time. Fabric is what touches our skin as we slip our panties on, up over our calves, thighs and finally to our hips or waist depending on the style. I know some of you prefer cotton panties. I do own cotton panties I wear them when it is very hot, usually in the summer months. The feel of satin or nylon on those days isnt comfortable. The fabric that probably most of us have in panties is nylon/ satin type. Some may have bows, lace and embroidery,ruffles or many other adornments.
So what is the big deal with fabrics, none really except when purchasing panties touch, feel the fabric. Dont look in one store's lingerie department go to several stores each store has panties but feel the softness, pass your hand over the panties as you pass by them, slide the pantie over your hand and arm do you like the feel of the fabric. The store you shop at speaks alot about the quality of the fabrics which the panties and lingerie are made from. Touch and feel the differences in each store before making that purchase. When in the mall visit all the stores before making a purchase. For me a few really nice, soft beautiful panties is better then hundreds that don't feel soft or sit in a drawer or at the back of the closet not to be slipped on over legs and butt.
As I explained to my son last week about bed sheets, the higher the thread count the softer the bedsheet and the more expensive it is. The same holds true of panties/ lingerie. Take my advice shop for your panties wisely purchase your panties and lingerie by feel and touch not price. Its the fabric that rubs against your skin don't you want the fabric to be soft,enticing, and arousing not just the right size!?

Photos

Today is a day off for me, school is closed due to the federal holiday. As I sit here in the comfy of my apartment wondering what my pantie guy is doing this fine morning. I was going to call him but thought at the last minute he maybe working. I didn't want to disturb him at work especially if he has any of his crews around. I do know he gets aroused when he hears my voice. I do think it is time to once again go pantie shopping for him, just to remind him want is important on days when the school is closed!

He doesn't send me photos of himself and over the times we have played we haven't taken photos. I would love to have a photo of him all dressed in panties and bra, he being so rugged and masculine he gets me aroused when dressed in panties, bra and other lingerie. Speaking of lingerie I think I have more of his lingerie at my place then he has at his place. I will be talking with him today, its time for more play time. I do mean PLAY time.

Photos,hmmm. So easily shared now more then ever. I have many photos. I mean alot. Most were sent to me by guys from the different forums I belong to and some I have found. I love guys in panties so I am pleased that they trust me enough to send me their photos. I don't share any photos unless I ask their permission before hand. I am respectful of their privacy and I am discreet. The photos I have are of guys that are rugged, masculine, sexy and sensual guys. Their professions run from being the carpenter to executives, to police officers and military officers, what they do for a living is of no consequence for me but they are a guy. Some are as young as 25 and others are retired from their professions. It isn't their age but just how sexy, sensual they are in their lingerie.

I do have one gentleman who actually pays me to keep his photos in a separate folder. In away I keep them hostage for payment. It is a arousing and sensual for him to know that I can expose him to the world at one simple click of my mouse. Each month I get paid a fee to keep them in his folder, safe and sound away from prying eyes of the world. I tell him what I want and he does the photographing. I have him in red ribbons and bows for Christmas, red lipstick and panties with bra on Valentine's Day and others of him in various poses with panties and bra on.

Take your photos enjoy yourself, post them to a forum so I may enjoy them as well. Photos I post here are with permission from my pantie guys. The photo posted here is my pantie friend after I have convinced him to wear panties to work under his suit. What would the other guys at the office think, if they knew he was a pantie wearing guy?